Guys, Im scared he will think my private part is hideous:(?
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So me and this guy have been close for 4 years but in an actual relationship for 2 months. I have ALWAYS hated the way my "down there" looks, and have been terrified to ever want to take my clothes off in the future. I dont ever want anybody to see and it makes me cry to look at it. So i sent him a pic of the 30 different types of pussy. I wanted to know which ones he preferred without actually asking him which he preferred (im shy) So i said pick 3 that you THINK mine would look like. He said either 2, 10, or 21.. Basically he answered in a way that shows which he would prefer or like.. And it broke my heart because im ugly number 4, which is no where near what he picked. So i just told him it will be a mystery.. And this other guy i talked to before , i asked him the same thing and he said i have to be number 2 because im a virgin.. Why do guys have this dumb knowledge that if your a virgin, your pussy looks like a babies.. i dont get it.. So basically they conclude if your junk is hanging out a little, you have been used up.. And i am a virgin but im number 4 and it makes me sad knowing i am considered used up and ugly :( Also my labia minora is a dark color rather than light pink :'( i just feel disgusting and never ever want to let no one get close to it.. sorry guys had to vent how i felt since i can't tell him or he'll run off
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Guys i told him about me being #4 and he said he knows it can be genetic influence and said he doesn't care , he said hed love it even if i was # 28 or #18
You are perfectly fine. You probably should break up with him, though, because he doesn't deserve you.
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there are unfortunately many misconception about female sexual organs. for example that if they are black the vagina is overused etc. all these false notions should be overcome with better education at schools... .
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ps: dont be dumb most men would beg to have a pussy, ANY PUSSY, a pussy which THEY DONT CARE how it will look.
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i dont think you should be ashamed of you lower body, I personally think 4 looks good. Dont ever feel ugly. There are guys who like all sorts of styles. So trust me if yours is like no.4 then i think its hot :)
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(25)You are perfectly fine. You probably should break up with him, though, because he doesn't deserve you.
there are unfortunately many misconception about female sexual organs. for example that if they are black the vagina is overused etc. all these false notions should be overcome with better education at schools... .
ps: dont be dumb most men would beg to have a pussy, ANY PUSSY, a pussy which THEY DONT CARE how it will look.
i dont think you should be ashamed of you lower body, I personally think 4 looks good. Dont ever feel ugly. There are guys who like all sorts of styles. So trust me if yours is like no.4 then i think its hot :)