Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health In terms of a straight heterosexual relationship, why are girls minds on the romantic aspects while guys minds are more on sex?
laurieluvsit Master
ROMANCE: A feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love.
A. It's because female brains are wired differently and don't put sex in as important a category as guys do
Vote A
B. There are a lot of things most girls want to know and understand about a guy before having sex with him
Vote B
C. The wiring to the sensors that operate guys brains run down to a location between their legs... lol
Vote C
D. IT'S DEFINITELY "ALL THE ABOVE"!
Vote D
E. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Girls Think Romance/Guys Think Sex" survey
Vote E
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What Girls & Guys Said
9 42Men are also romantic.
Females are more comfortable with having intimacy because they are the ones that have to bear the children and face social judgement. So they rely on details to build a trust and thus are more selective
All the above. Not that girls can't be focused on sex more sometimes.
I think it's because we all want, what's hard to get.
I think it’s how we’re programmed.
I'm demisexual so it's all the same to me.
I’m not so concerned with romance give me a loyal man and good sex I’m happy
because sex is thought to be mostly ohysical and guys are more physical usually. where as romance is thought of as more of a emotional thing and majority of women are viewed as more emotional. truth be told though, sex is more of a mental thing than most people realize and romance takes a fair amount of physical effort.
I think it's a causation due to the fact that girls mature faster than boys hence when you think about a guy who only wants sex he's deemed as immature.
Because romance is focused on what women want, so it's not exciting for us. Sex is one of the few activities where it's beneficial for men in a relationship.