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Sexual Health Im not a virgin although i wish i was lol. Even though i was forced into some shit with my first ex at 15 and I willingly enjoyed sex with my other ex at 23, I’d still prefer to date a virgin. I get that people can be experienced but there's always more to learn... And well, I like to teach. With a virgin, i can teach the little I know but we can also learn together and build up an awesome sex life. I’d of course still date a nonvirgin, but not if they’ve had a lot of sexual partners in the past. That just makes me uncomfortable, but I’ll try to respect those of you who say numbers shouldn't matter. by the way, you can still become “experienced” even when fcking the same person all your life. Bt some feel you need to be with some of everybody in order to be considered experienced
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In terms of experience, are you more comfortable dating virgins or someones whos had several sex partners?
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Lmao so me and only 2 other girls seem to like virgins 😂 the poll has the guys all like wanting a VIRGIN and all the girls are like wanting a NONVIRGIN
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20 60That's a very interesting perspective you've just put up. Yes it is very important to go on that teaching journey. But I don't think it has a lot to do with virginity though.
Even though it is quite true that a lot of people with much experience just use whatever they've learnt in the past, I think that can't be generalized.
Even within the woman I've been with, I've noticed that everyone has a unique perspective, interests and fantasies. We all enjoy things a different way. And if someone is truly obsessively adores you, I think you will go through that journey of learning about each other's preferences, and discovering each other all over again.
Especially when you're in love with someone, it's like a reset everyday. Even though you've done it before, you feel nervous, feel like this one's different like you've never experienced anything like that before. Even if you've just seen that person last night, they just look as fascinating and surprising as it was yesterday.
Sounds amazing. Thats why i said i’ll date either but prefer a virgin
I'm an older male never had a real sexual encounter with a Woman just never went there plus I always wanted something that's for real so makes no difference to me
either Virgin or Non-virgin but I am marriage minded
Thats good to know
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I rather a virgin but if he has less than 5 partners then I'm fine with that. I don't like guys with lots of sexual partners. A major turn off for me.
Yea i prefer he’d been with no more than 3
I like to get vag that is totally flogged to death, and wreck it more🙏
Lmao umm
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I’m no virgin, but don’t have much experience. I personally wouldn’t mind dating either. It’s not how many sex partners you had or if you had any I look at how they act and if I genuine have any attraction to her.
"And well, I like to teach. With a virgin, i can teach the little I know but we can also learn together and build up an awesome sex life."
Translation: "I am a control freak in bed and want to train my partners to do it how I want to do it. People with past experiences have ideas of what THEY want and I don't like that."
THAts not the case at all. But nice try. Try again. I like virgins because they are less likely to have been hoeing around
Fair enough, its all good! :)
Both are okay, it's easier if you both know what you want, but it can be exciting too when he doesn't know Yet
Yea cause you can make shit up and he just goes along 🤣
:) :)
I prefer experience thank you.
Okayy
I prefer either one of us to know how things should go instead of being awkward lol so as im a virgin i voted that my guy should at least had sex once. But i wouldn't turn down a virgin guy tho, its hard to find one nowadays
Its cute when both are lost tho
I exclusively go for a low partner count. It shows a girl has standards and enough sexual self-control to not jump into bed with everything that can walk.
Absolutely 🙌
They're less likely to be freaks if they're virgins and I love a chick that's a freak in bed
Shiiii i was a supefreak when a virgin lmao
Never dated a virgin and don’t really want to. Too much pressure
Scared you’ll hurt them physically? Or scared of the emotional attachment?
Needy, making it a bigger deal than it is
fine. i'll finally say it publucly. i was 6 when i lost my virginity. had found my dad's mag stash and had my 7 year old female friend help me try stuff we seen.
Are u dead serious. Wow
yes i am. am almost 43 and been a non-virgin close to 40 of those years.
honestly lost my virginty before most early 30 somethings were even born
looking back we were both very terrible at it but we did do it none the less. pretty much every day for about a year and a half. till my older brother and his friend caught us
Doesn’t matter to me, as long as we get along well
I hear ya
Just someting hot about being with a virgin and finding out that the innocent girl she was is not the kinky dirty minded girl she reveals herself to be 😍
Lol true
I'm indifferent, don't really have a preference.
Ahh ok
It doesn't matter to me tbh, just as long we are good together, if she's a virgin then I'd be more than happy to teach her and love her like she should be.
Thats sweet
My first ex scarred me for life from virgins.
Damn what he do
He was anti-sex and I still feel gross from it.
Asexual or just waiting til marriage?
He said he was waiting till marriage when we first met but later said he found sex gross.
Oh hell naw
Exactly. He wasn't worth not having sex.
I'd much rather date a virgin. That way there's less pressure to perform on my end.
True
I think the more experience the better
Hmm ok