Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I Turned 17 years old few months ago, i am quite skinny and i have only 4 inch long penis till Now, i have a Crush on a Nextdoor Girl but unfortunately she got to see me naked in a Weird shocking Situation, She has stopped talking to me and Dumped me ! Being too skinny and having 4 inch penis could be a reason?
I had asked one other question on My profile which is, Has My Girlfriend dumped me totally?
Is 4 inch penis size turn off for a Girl?
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What Girls & Guys Said
19 33A 4 inch penis is normal for a Thai guy. It is probably the shock of seeing you naked that shocked her.
I think the actual size is less important than the fact she saw you in that way. I think size matters but i think with most girls its not a deal-breaker. Im well endowed and i struggle with women sometimes too.
Honestly, I prefer guys with a bigger penis as my husband is over the average size as for me it feels better but he is also the first guy on the bigger side i have been with but your only 17 your still growing. I wouldn't turn a guy down just on the size of his penis even though I prefer bigger.
@kat94, i have been told that average penis size is 6" inch So i have got only 4" inch which i regrets a lot, i know Most Girls like tall Guys who have big penis but i can't do much with this, that Neighbor Girl is very pretty and i has a crush on her, at that day she accidentaly came in the room when i was being punished naked and i didn't get time to cover myself, She is a close friend with My 19 years old Sister and she said to My Sistet in a Surprised way that she didn't know that boys can have so small penis too ! And from Next day she stopped talking to me and she ignores me if i try to talk to her.
The Average penis is about 5 so your not far off but you are only 17 you are still growing if she is that shallow to not give you a chance based on the size of your penis then she isn't worth your time there are plenty of girls that wouldn't care about the size of your penis.
@kat94 She is quite pretty and i know her for last 2 years but she shall give me a chance, At that day he ( My Sister's boyfriend) brutallt pulled and yanked my penis, That neighbor girl saw it by herself... instead of intervening or helping me, She stopped talking to me and she told to my sister in a sarcastic way that your brother has quite small penis ! I Still like her and may be in next 2-3 years my penis can grow bigger.
There are a lot of pretty girls, there would be someone who wouldn't care. Yes, you are still growing so give it a few years but even if you don't get bigger there are others who wouldn't care and for her to not intervene that says a lot about her as a person. You can do better
I hope something will happen better with me in future ! I Noticed Pretty Girls are quite " heartless" and hard to please them, She didn't intervene when he was sexually assulting me but i thought she was scared or Weirded but all she noticed was my small penis and dumped me.
She honestly doesn't seem worth your time.
Shall i talk to My Mom about this?
Yes, definitely
But i feel embarrasing, i don't know what exactly shall i say to Mom? And how she will react on this all.
Just tell her what happened. You shouldn't feel embarrassed it's not your fault.
@kat94 My Mom used to spank me bare bottom when i was 12-13 years old and after that My 22 years old Sister started getting me punished naked by her biyfriend but when i turned 17 years Mom told me that now i would not be punished naked but still at that day My Oldest Sister got me punished naked and Coincidentally that neighbor girl got to see this, A boy shall not be punished naked once he turns 15 years old but My oldest Sister don't follow this rule.
I would definitely talk to your mum. Get smacked on the bottom is very different than touching a person's private as a punishment. It's sexual assault which is not okay
@kat94 Yeah What he do is very cruel, he grabs my penis and pulls hard but My issue is with My 22 years old Sister, 3 Months ago i turned 17 years old and Mom said to me i have grown up and would not be punished like earlier and even if i gets spanked then my underwear won't be taken off But Still My oldest Sister don't care, She still ask her boyfriend to take my underwear off before he punish me, I had Complaint to Mom but she chided her mildly, At that day when that neighbor girl saw me naked, i felt so much hurt emotinally and mentallt but due to shame i could not tell to My Mom.
Don't feel ashamed. If you don't feel like you can talk to your mum maybe speak to a trusted friend or another family member. Do you go to school? Maybe a school counsellor there are plenty of people you could speak with if you don’t feel like this is something you can tell your mum.
@kat94, Yeah i go to School but i don't want to reveal this in school because of some reasons until i trust someone fully, I had Complaint to Mom about My 22 years old Sister, But She is a kind of bully and stubborn Girl, She says to Mom that she won't do it Again but if she gets Annoyed then she ask her boyfriend to take my underwear off to punish me ( specially if Mom not around or not at home ) My Sister's boyfriend is tall and strong Guy and despite my resist he forcefully have me naked, that neighbor Girl also study in my school ( we are in different class ) and i am afraid she can tell in school what she saw at my home.
Have you thought about moving out getting your own place so you don't have to be around your Sister?
Once i complete my schooling i would move out, My oldest Sister is a bitch but it was My Mom's fault that she got so much power over me.
In thailand it is not
What age till it can grow bigger?
Up till 25
Yes it is
I just turn 17 years reventely and i am a Thai boy, i have 4" now but can't it grow big? That neighbor girl unfortunately saw me naked and has stopped talking to me like i did any mistake !
Did she say that is why she finished. Or are you using that as an excuse.
Even with a four inch penis in some positions it can be great.
I have found girls are more upset when they see a big one, thinking will that hurt putting that in me...
She did not say anything to me directely, She is close friend of My 19 years old Sister and she said to her ( My Sister ) that i have quite small penis, if two girls are close then they discuss everything with each other So i think My 19 years old Sister must know what she thinks about my size.
But you are jumping to a conclusion, a four inch penis is smaller than the average but it's still big enough to be fun...
Probably yea
Some girls have prolly had larger
But don't feel bad about ur size
As long as u know how to use it thats cool
Some guys have huge dicks but don't know how to use em to make a girl feel good which is useless
So what could be the reason, Why that neighbor girl has dumped me?
Yeaa
If she left you cause your size penis & for being skinny she a fool there's more to love than just sex and looks Throw the whole clown ass away
She got to see my penis coincidentally when i was being punished naked, Since i have only 4" inch penis now, So she didn't like it, She is close friend with my 19 years old Sister and she told her about my size.
I have no idea. But I know it is not a turn on. (The best advice comes from the movie Rocky... When he is one the first date "I was told I don't have a good brain so I should develop my body"
dude your dick is still growing, don't worry it can reach to 6 inches still, just don't masturbate , have a good diet.
But for last 1 years its growing very Slow, Some of My School friend has got big dicks at age of 15 or 16 only
don't worry you will grow some of them have slower growth , just don't masturbate because it will remove all nutrients from the body which are essential and have good diet and exercise regularly.
if you want medicine to grow dick i can tell you dm me
Well buddy if you Google it it says 5 in is the average size for a man's penis, and that's erect so you have two questions to ask yourself was it soft or erect?
Neighbor girl saw my penis when i was being punished naked at home, it was not soft or erect then.
No size shouldn't be.. the only thing that matters is how you use it.
If size is not matter for her then why she has stopped talking to me since she saw me naked, its been more than a month now.
I don't know maybe she's uncomfortable or too shy after the incident
i think you're right
So what shall i do now?
probably
im only around 5.5 inches
6 when really hard
Probably means? Did you have any bad experience with any girl because of small size?
i dunno. im still a virgin. but i think 6 and below is small 7 and above is big
I do not know why many men tend to think that a long dick is the main deal when it comes to sex.
Just find out what position favours you with the 4inch dick you have
got, so she might have left you because of something else. Go and find out from her why she lost interest .
it can be if you're additionally unfit.
What do you mean by additinally unfit? I am 17 years old Thai boy, i am skinny and my penis size is 4", unfortunately at that day she got to see my penis when i was being punished naked at home, i could not cover myself and from next day she stopped talking to me.
one : let the bitch go. two : you sound alright. join gym if you want your ripped. most women find it most desirable
Lack of confidence could be a turn off for her
Huh?
What else can i say? It is not all about the size of your dick man... It is about how you treat the girl and how she sees you
It's absolutely okay.
Some women won’t date guys if they aren’t a certain height which is another thing we can’t change so it’s not surprising to me
It's not about size, it's about the experience, many guys may have small penises but they are great in bed, sex is not just putting your penis in a pussy