Is 5'7" too tall to be submissive?

I like to be the "little one" in bed, and I like being his little girl. But sometimes I feel too big. I'm 5'7" and weigh 105 lbs. Is it too tall and big to be a little, submissive girl? I want to look like what I feel like, but I can't... 😑😑😞
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  • I hope you're not being serious.
    I'm 6'2", articulate, forward, bitchy, challenging, and... kind of overwhelming, in general -- and, at heart, I'm INCREDIBLY submissive. I don't just "like" being broken in -- I NEED it.
    And I wouldn't want to be even an inch shorter. Fuck no.

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    First --
    Dominance has NOTHING to do with height or size.

    • If you watch dogs interact with each other, you'll know what I mean. We have 2 dogs, one of which is a rescued fighting dog and the other of which is a three-legged mutt that weighs about 1/8th as much... and the little three-legged mutt is absolutely the alpha, out of that pair.

    • If a supposedly "dominant" guy prefers short and/or small women because that makes him "feel" more dominant, then HE IS NOT ACTUALLY DOMINANT AT ALL. That's FAKE. Fake-ass bullshit "dominance". There's NOTHING authentic about it.
    I mean... This is basically just common sense, but... If the only way a guy can feel "dominant" is to tower over a girl who's the size of my 8-year-old, then... uhh yeah, *you* tell *me*.

    In fact...
    In my (very, very extensive) experience, TRULY dominant men -- as opposed to men who just want a "yes, dear" pushover type -- are actually turned OFF by really small women, for the most part.
    I mean... This shouldn't be a surprise. It's like what we all learned in first grade: "Go pick on someone yr own size!" That's still a thing.

    Men who only want to "dominate" tiny women aren't doms. They're just bullies.

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    I mean... Honestly? If the size differential is TOO much -- How is this even going to WORK? How are you gna actually play rough, for REAL?

    If yr idea of "submissive" is just getting smacked on the ass a bit, then, whatever. But, read my opinion here:
    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1969724-what-is-your-idea-of-rough-sex

    One of my best girlfriends is about 5'1", and even after multiple childbirths she's still about 90-95 pounds soaking wet.
    If I were her, then, what I described in that link ^^ just WOULDN'T EVEN WORK.
    There'd be NO WAY I could get a man to just... *lay into me*, the way my man does with me.
    Who's gna REALLY give the business to a girl who's 5 feet tall and doesn't even weigh 100 lbs?
    Please.

    The ONLY kind of "submissiveness" that isn't total stupid meaningless pretend bullshit garbage... is the kind where he gets you to submit AFTER you've put up YOUR BEST FIGHT.
    The kind where you CHALLENGE him... CONSTANTLY.
    About that here: (girl MHO)
    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2014236-does-this-degrade-women

    • Oh this is the best answer I guess. Thank you so much!

    • You're very welcome. <3

    • This is so true! I’m a dom guy, and I’m very attractive to women who’s taller/bigger than me. I find it’s a challenge, there’s nothing turns me on than dominating a tall/big woman

  • No, not at all. I'm 5'10" and submissive af with my boyfriend (who's a bit shorter). It's fine. Being submissive/dominant is a mind-set, something based on your nature as an individual. It's not much, if anything at all, to do with size.

    • HAHAHAHAHA, you and I both know that you don't perceive that. You want him to be taller.

    • @alfonsosloan45 you're STILL trolling this site? dude. Get a life (and some pussy, since you're obviously incapable).

    • I get pussy all the time. I troll on here from time to time. I haven't been on here in months though.

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  • haha no.
    I am 5.4, am I too short to be dominant? xD Nope

    • I dont knoow, doms seem to be obssesed with petites

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  • there is no height nor weight for a certain attitude hun... if you want to be submissive then go all out girl don't worry about your physical appearance

    • i'm a dom personally, and i've seen girls in all shapes and sizes who love to be dominated in bed (sometimes roughly). Girls bigger and taller than me, taller and thinner, smaller and bigger etc

  • You're only 105lbs? You're freaking TINY! It would be EASY for most guys to toss you around and completely dominate you in bed! ;-)

    • I know but it is also about height

    • You're not that tall. And you're so light that you could literally be picked up and fucked standing.

    • That was inspiring haha I'm glad

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  • Not to worry. Submission is a state of mind and isn't about your size. Find a Dom and tell him what you need. Are you kinky?

  • Submission in the bedroom has nothing to do with weight, height, hair colour, etc. It's just a fetish, and in many cases a mindset.

  • i don't think your height has anything to do with your ability to be a submissive.

  • No. 5'7" isn't even tall for a Western girl, in general. In fact, it's literally the ideal female height (for most men; not for me).

    Where I'm from (a certain part of America), the typical woman/most women were 5'6", and 140-155 lbs. You may FEEL you're "too tall" to be a petite little tiny plaything, but you are also extremely thin for your height, so I think it works out for you. And like I said; you're not even tall. Another two inches and you WOULD be tall for a girl, but not right now.

    Is 5'7" too tall to be submissive?Is 5'7" too tall to be submissive?
  • Submissive is a state of mind, not a physical thing.

  • Yes too tall and big to be little submissive girl, unless you will find an very tall guy.

  • Submissive is a state of mind... she could be any height.

  • Height and size have nothing to do with submissiveness. Nothing. lol

  • HELL NO!

    Chopping down a big/tall gal to submissive size is a bonus turnon and if she has to struggle a bit in demeaning fashion to submit to sexual poses/positions, all the better that she commits to all this

  • 105 lbs need to eat a little bit, I'd throw you around lol

    submissive is a state of mine not a physical trait

  • no not if he's over 6 ft

  • As long as your man is enjoying himself it doesn't matter what you look like. Have fun and show him you love him.

  • I always thought this was a personality thing..

  • 105 at 5'7"? Yeesh.

  • Would you date a guy who is 5'5 skinny, and he wants to be your little treasure and wants to please you? He giggles whenever you kiss him? Date or not?

  • There is no "too tall to be submissive". I can dominate a 6'5" amazon woman just fine.

  • the girl i had sex with was 5'7.5" and like 120 lbs i guess? i am 5'10.5" and trust me, i had no issues being dom ha ha

  • im sure you are great

  • Height has nothing to do with submission and any guy who thinks so is a pussy.

    It's not too tall to be submissive.

  • yes? same way a guy doesn't need to be tall to be dominant

    • HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA, you and I both know that his perceived dominance from other women will fall radically if he was short.

    • @alfonsosloan45 depends how short and his build

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