Is a bald vagina childish?

I'm doing laser hair removal sessions because I am middle eastern and that means I used to be so damn hairy. It always made me self-conscious and made me want to skip having sex. Now my mom tells me that I made a mistake and no man will like this because it's childish.
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  • Well, my personal feeling about pubic hair is: You can't have too much pubic hair ! I like to see all of the hair you can grow, up above your mons area, all over the outer lips, some over between you labia and your thighs, I like to see a nice ring of hair around your asshole AND in between your asshole and vagina. The thicker, the fuller the better. A man can always separate the hair by spreading the lips to get his tongue in OR his penis. I once caught a woman's pubic hair with my penis head and 'pulled it' trying to penetrate her. I just started again. Not a big deal. The hair washes easily and serves as a cushion during fucking hard.

    I don 't like a bald vulva

    • Either your dick was so sticky that the pubic hair stuck to it and was pulled that way. Under normal circumstances a penisxwill not pull pubic hair.

    • @MysteriousDarkness Oh thanks for that !

  • While I personally believe that plucking petals from a flower does not make the flower more beautiful, I concede I am in the minority. These days, the majority of American men prefer bald over hairy. If I were dating you, I'd try to convince you to now remove your hair. I love the way it feels on my face and the way it smells and tastes. I'd also encourage you to grow your other hair as long as possible. Yes a vagina that has no hair looks like it belongs to a child. But that is what is popular in many countries these days. So sadly, I disagree with your mom as to what most men like.

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  • You didn’t make a mistake, especially if it makes you feel better about how you look. Hair removal in that area has kind of become the norm. There are some men who like pubic hair on a woman but in my experience, the vast majority of them prefer it smooth down there so don’t worry. They will be pleased with you. I think your mom’s ideas here are old fashioned.

  • You have made a great decision and I can assure you that guys love it and do not find it in any way childish. I am a fellow laser smoothie.

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  • I can't speak to middle eastern men's tastes, but most men in the west prefer it smooth and clean - I know I do.

  • I heard that one before… You’re mom is wrong, there are many men that like clean shaven vulvas and will in no way act out a pedophilic fantasy. Pedophilia is defined as the sexual attraction to pre-pubescent kids. The boobs will give it away that you’re not. And sorry for your mother’s loss of a more interesting sex life.

  • No, it is not childish. It is beautiful and it makes you even more appealing. Your mother is just being very old-fashioned and inhibited.

  • If you had kids youd understand why shaved gentials are so unattractive. I've wiped shit off smooth balls too many times in my life that I cannot stand the sight of them being smooth on a grown man cause of that reason. I only have sons but if I ever have a daughter I'd be feeling the same towards women as well.

  • I hate hearing someone say that a bald pussy is like a little girl! Those same people have no problem shaving their legs and underarms! Pubic hair is nasty on males and females!

  • I prefer a hairy pussy. I can understand that not all girls like that, but I would be disappointed if my partner would be fully lasered and not able to grow out pubic hair anymore. Trimming, shaving, or an occasional wax: it's all fine for me, but please no lasering.

    • To clarify: while I prefer it hairy, I don't think that the smooth look is childish. It's very common for adult women to have a smooth pussy and many men will like it. It's just that personally I would prefer that my girl could grow pubic hair and could change between different styles if she doesn't want to keep a full bush all the time. I would get bored if it was always smooth and if she couldn't grow even a bit of hair. My girlfriend knows I like a full bush, so usually she keeps it like that. But sometimes she gets fed up with having a big bush so then she starts shaving again. A couple of years ago she started shaving again, leaving only a little landing strip. She told me that she would grow a full bush for me again in the future, but that she really wanted a change for some time. It took more than a year before she grew out a full bush again, but it was fine for me: I knew all the time that one day she would have a full bush again.

  • I do not prefer it but can understand why women might believe it is the most appetizing for cunnilingus. It does hint of underage to me.

  • I can't speak to what other men like or want. Personally yes I think I a totally bald vulva makes someone seem prepubescent and it makes me a little uncomfortable. BUT, I'm not the one who has to deal with the discomfort of having a lot of hair down there. If you are happy keeping it totally bald down there and it makes you feel better, that's great! Don't worry what guys might think, I doubt it will be a deal break for anyone.

  • Not at all
    Guys actually love it

  • It’s sexy then again you are a grown woman since you know what sex is so it’s your choice to remove it or not. Good luck

  • No it is not it is nice when ther are no hairs


  • No, your mom is incorrect, the amount of pubic hair after puberty is race influenced, some people have a huge bush, others get squat even as adults.

    Also most men and women aren't a fan of pubic hair, it's just one of those things people tend to remove, like unibrows, or armpit hair, or butt hair, or chest hair, and even facial hair for a large chunk of people who shave each day.

  • If so, then shaving a beard is also childish.

  • A bald vagina isn’t childish. A bald vagina is a hairless vagina and any guy who doesn’t like your hairless vagina isn’t right for you.

  • If a guy really cares about you he won’t care what your vagina is like.

  • No not at all. I am half indian and we are hairy right? I shave my area all the time.. well trim... and then shave

  • If it is we are childish together.

  • Of course not. Your personal hygiene is none of your mothers business, so you made a mistake telling her.

    • If she mentions it again, tell her you let it grow back, lol.

  • Kids have hairless bodies. That's all I know.

  • Oh, no it is very sexy. Much easier to give otal too.

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