Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Sometimes when turn down my husband in a night, after asking multiple times, he goes into the bathroom and does it with Jill. It makes me feel betrayed, it's like he's married to his hand.
Is a man pleasuring himself basically cheating?
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Wow talk about victim blaming. I should be thankful he isn't cheating?
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18 34I would 100% kill myself if I was married to you
You gotta be careful about Jill, though. He’s always hanging around your husband. It was bound to happen.
Communication.
I'm not at all saying you need to have sex with him whenever he asks. Feel free to turn it down when you don't want to.
But then don't get mad at him for taking care of his own needs. He clearly would rather have a night with you than jerk off, because that's his first choice. So it's not like he's constantly jerking off and giving you zero attention. But when you're not available and he still feels pent up, of course he's gonna want to relieve that feeling and not just sit around in discomfort.
Obviously not. If you refuse to satisfy your husbands sexual needs, he'll find another way to do it. Just be thankful he's not fucking another woman.
As a wife you are failing your husband. That will eventually come back to bite you and you'll end up with much bigger problems than him masturbating.
Seems like you say no a lot. The husband should maybe be worried about some things about you, not the other way around.
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This is the dumbest question I've read on G@G today. Well done.
You can't be serious. How the f is it cheating. You are turning him down. He has to find a way to relieve his sexual tension. Be thankful he isn't sticking his duck in another woman's vagina.
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None of us are victim blaming. Sorry but you are delusional to think it is cheating and to expect him to go to sleep. Gosh he needs to find a better wife because you are messed up
She's delusional if she thinks she a victim. The only victim is her boyfriend/husband. Sounds like this is a pretty routine thing that happens. As a wife or girlfriend she should be making sure his balls stay drained.