Is asking for nudes or sexually provocative pictures appropriate? What makes you ask for these?

So I post on my private social media quite a lot and it will show some skin depending on what I wear - now I’ve never posted pictures in a bikini or anything similar - mainly I’m either in my working out clothes or wearing a nice dress kinda thing.

Now I’m having an ongoing argument with this guy because he asked for a picture of my cleavage and I got offended (like wtf do you guys really do this and think it’s normal?)

I said to him:

“It’s cheeky and disrespectful of you to even ask me that given that we’re not romantically involved”,

and his response is:

“Your pictures show your cleavage so you can’t be annoyed at me for asking”

Like wtf? None of my pictures shows off my chest, but being a girl with a well-endowed chest I can’t hide it and I shouldn’t have to, I genuinely don’t understand how anyone can justify this?

“Offending” picture attached below:
Is asking for nudes or sexually provocative pictures appropriate? What makes you ask for these?
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  • Hell yes it's absolutely appropriate though may come. off as a bit thirsty

  • Tell him, "Well there you go." Then ask him, "Why do you need me to send you one if there is already a picture posted that you noticed cleavage showing? "

  • That hardly shows cleavage. I would only ask a camgirl, pornstar, or my girlfriend for nudes. So far I have gotten them from all.

  • inappropriate

  • I'm not the kind of guy who would do such things and I don't find that polite nor courteous.

  • It’s always inappropriate to ask for nudes...

  • It is inappropriate if two people aren't in that type of relationship.

    Nice hair by the way.

  • It's not ok

  • Not really

  • It is between two people who are... not necessarily exclusive, however their relationship is progressing that way.

  • Well he should at least offer to marry you if he is going to get that intimate.

    • Hahahah I like that response. I might say this next time someone asks for one

  • Hi K! Since we have talked before and you already know me, I will speak frankly.

    First, the photo above does in fact show flattering cleavage. So his statement is TRUE:
    “Your pictures show your cleavage...”
    What is CLEARLY WRONG is his follow-up:
    "... so you can’t be annoyed at me for asking"

    Especially in light of your statement:
    “It’s cheeky and disrespectful of you to even ask me that given that we’re not romantically involved”
    So, as is evident, he is OUT OF LINE with his request. Unfortunately, your exposed cleavage led him to believe he could get away with this.

    Its not right or fair, but sadly the reality in our times, is that photos like this one will lead some to act like him!

    • I personally don't think my photo is leading anyone on to think that way

  • As long as a guy asks nicely, not demands. It should not be disrespectful. You can just say no without giving any opinion or explanation.

    If the guy insists, just block the f out of him.

    Now, if it offended you, it's useless to argue with him because it's your own personal opinion against his wishes

  • To answer the question not your entire post no not really but then again it depends on the situation and who you are asking if you're asking your girlfriend or boyfriend it's ok if you're asking a stranger that has no nude pics on his or her profile or whatever it's not ok

  • Cause they don’t get any at home they try go online to do so.

  • I appreciate nudes a lot, so you feel free to send whenever you want ;P

  • Actually I have n\been in a Bra and Panties mood recently meaning if we were friends I would not ask you to pose naked but i would love to take some some photos of you in Bra and Panties actually I just asked that question recently but it should be completely your decision you know if your thinking about it and feeling uncomfortable maybe you could ask a friend to be there with you to be safe. Now I mean this as a joke "If we lived close and you would like some Bra and Panties or Nude photos you can call Have a great night sleep well with pleasant dreams

  • I try not too..

  • Nothing offending about that pic you go girl tell them what for

  • Wow sooo cute
    Like a princess 😍😍😍😍

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