Is asking for nudes or sexually provocative pictures appropriate? What makes you ask for these?

So I post on my private social media quite a lot and it will show some skin depending on what I wear - now I’ve never posted pictures in a bikini or anything similar - mainly I’m either in my working out clothes or wearing a nice dress kinda thing.

Now I’m having an ongoing argument with this guy because he asked for a picture of my cleavage and I got offended (like wtf do you guys really do this and think it’s normal?)

I said to him:

“It’s cheeky and disrespectful of you to even ask me that given that we’re not romantically involved”,

and his response is:

“Your pictures show your cleavage so you can’t be annoyed at me for asking”

Like wtf? None of my pictures shows off my chest, but being a girl with a well-endowed chest I can’t hide it and I shouldn’t have to, I genuinely don’t understand how anyone can justify this?

“Offending” picture attached below:
Is asking for nudes or sexually provocative pictures appropriate? What makes you ask for these?
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  • I've made this mistake before. Don't do it!

  • Its getting more and more normalized it seems.

  • There's nothing wrong with being naked! You should be proud of how sexy you are and be happy when naked no. matter where you are and who sees it

  • Be safe

  • Tbf you're literally showing your cleavage to everybody on your Instagram anyway so what's the difference

    • First of I don’t use instagram, secondly my accounts are private so you can only see my pictures if I’ve added you as a friend. And that picture is not a picture of cleavage, it might show a little but that doesn’t make it that

    • Well then you obviously wanted that guy to see your body anyway

    • No. I don't post pictures of myself for the satisfaction of others 🙄

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  • Nah unless you're dating and even then, after you've dated for a while. Or unless you're cool with sharing with each other and have talked about it

  • It is inappropriate and I don't ask women for them.

  • Sometimes we want to relax sexually, it is more attractive and exciting to do this by talking to someone of the opposite sex, so it may be desirable and I think it's a nice thing

  • You look beautiful lady

  • Some guys will always find excuse for their misconduct such as the "boys will be boys" one.

  • Well you look attractive anyway but some guys are rude

  • You post whorish pics online but got offended when someone asked for one?
    You entitled pos.

    • Where’s the whorish pic though? Last I checked a whore means someone selling sex for money, how do I take a picture that shows I want money in exchange for sex? 🤔🙃 I’m quite certain a picture of myself fully clothed does not equate to me selling sex 😒

    • “I post on my private social media quite a lot and it will show some skin depending on what I wear“ If you expose more of your body than necessary for cheap sexual attention, then you are “selling” yourself by giving up dignity for attention.

    • This is utter shît, get your head out of your arśehole

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  • He's been pulled up on his disrespect and now he's trying to project his shame onto you. Seriously, don't take it personally, the guy juts has issues. Block.

    • Yessss! I couldn't believe he had the audacity to push it back on me, like wtf. He's blocked now, I just hope he doesn't add me from another account or something (I'm usually unfortunate enough to come across people that do crazy stuff)

    • Yeah there's plenty of crazy to go around unfortunately. I've had the same sort of problems *cringe*. Just don't even respond, I'm sure they only do it to beg attention. It's pretty sad.

  • Is not appropriate, and you have the freedom to post photos as you like. But in this case, people can see your boobs so he could think is an invitation. As women who use bikinis post on the Internet

    • My boobs don't show. it literally just shows part of my chest with a hint of cleavage - which is very normal to see on almost every girl wearing a low cut top

  • just a desperate guy who wants to get a peek. Most people would want to see as much as possible of the body when they're attracted to someone. It's natural. But it is a weird thing to actually ask for. I've always liked your pics. I've found them pretty classy compared to what girls usually post online these days. :)

    • Thank you :)

    • you're welcome. :D