Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is casual dating a nice name for using people for sex?
Anonymous
So I've been seeing a guy for a couple months. Dates and having sex and talking basically everyday. Every time we hangout he seems he's really into me and doting, but then when i bring up being exclusive he wants to only casually date and says he doesn't want a relationship. What should I make of this?
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12 46I think you two can say you two are dating but I’m confused
he's dating others
Ok I’m sorry that happened
Dump him any guy that thinks your good enough to have sex with but not good enough to have a relationship with isn't worth you time
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Thanks
Well he's been honest, i think if you wanted a relationship he is clearly wrong person for that, plus you maybe shouldn't slept with him so early on.
Not if they're both casually dating.
im not dating anybody else, but he is.
Nope. He's just a douche.
That he is a friends with benefits or Fb
Why y'all keep treating sex like being used, you get to have sex too... FFS
Well we only had sex once actually
Yes it is. That is what it is.
No it's friends with benefits
i want out if that is the case
Sounds like u guys r juss fuck buddies
I would say... Call it friends with benefits
i hate that term.. i want no parts of that
Yeah
Sure, and marriage is a nice way of saying "legal contract used to strip men of all his rights, freedom, and things... punishable by complete destruction of everything he has worked for if he leaves. Aka the bitch lottery."
Have you not been enjoying the sex? Does that mean you've been using him too?
If you want to use the term "using" then at least apply it to both of you since you have both been "using" each other equally.
Yes it's another way to say whoring around
It probably means he's having sex with other girls. Ask him if he is.
Oh and are you on dates and having sex with him every day (in which case maybe he isn't having sex with other girls, but he still may be), or are you on dates and having sex some days and just talking on the days that you're not on dates and having sex? If that's the case then he's probably on a date and having sex with someone else.
yes we dont see eachother everyday
Ah okay--so that's most likely. Just ask him. The fact that he's been straight with you about not wanting to be exclusive suggests he's got some integrity and will be straight with you.