Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is casual sex before marriage bad?
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Im 28 virgin male. I have not had any girlfriend and have not had sex with any hooker even though I could. Because I want to be sexual with my wife only. Is my opinion right, or is there no harm in doing some naughty things before marriage?
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23 38There’s nothing wrong with it as long as both parties know what they’re getting into and are consenting to it. There’s also no harm in waiting until marriage. As long as you’re ok with whatever you decide and everything you do is mutually consensual and you know, legal there is no problem
In summary, doesn’t matter, neither choice is bad or good.
You do you, I’ll do me, and we won’t do each other... probably
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nope. it raises your chances of finding someone that's sexually compatible.
Find someone sexually compatible? What does incompatible look like? His tool resemble water and her place of a clothesline? Haha
@retlaw0311 not every dick fits every vagina but that just on a side note. you know people have sexual things they like and stuff they don't like at all and if you match up with the polar oposite of sexual preferences, you're not gonna have a good time.
I gotcha now...
Better off celibate because there are STDs and risk if pregnancy that can really fuck your life up and all this for just a few moments of stinky sex. I guess a hand job is relatively risk free but it almost never stops there.
Individual choices.. I can't comment if it bad or good. Do whatever you want it's your life
I think your values are a little outdated. there's nothing right or wrong about it one way or the other. It's simply just a matter of preference. There are several situations, mostly bachelor parties, where men do have sex before marriage. Same thing with women too. Decide for yourself what you want to do, and stop caring about what other people think of you whether you do or not.
It's a sin, yet people don't care.
Not everyone subscribes to the idea of sin.
Exactly my point.
I don’t think there is but if you are religious and want a religious wife it might be a problem.
Do what you want, who cares?
Yes; unchristian, unsafe, and unwise in 2019. Losing your virginity just for the sake of the losing it isn't worth it in the end.
Do whatever you want to do, but stay away from hookers. If you can't find a 30 year old girlfriend that will fuck, you will not be able to find a wife.
Whether or not you fuck, doesn't matter because it is neither right nor wrong. If it is right for you, do it; otherwise, don't.
Why is everybody saying stay away from hookers
Aside from the fact that it is illegal, there is a high risk of an STD. Beside, unless you are flat out ugly, you can find fat women that will fuck you.
Clean conscience, makes you feel better that you want to do the right thing ...
That is your choice.
It is bad. It's acceptable for a guy to have sex before marriage but only in a relationship. Infact, casual sex is always bad. I can't stand guys who do it.
You can wait, but there is no harm doing it beforehand either.
no harm
you could wait if you want, but if you must, use protection unless you know they're clean
No you good that's how its supposed to be. It's meant to be special
Your a loser sorry buddy. You haven't had those things because you can't not because you chose not to
Thanks for the expert comments. I won't like to argue with u. Have a nice day.
Have a great day vlad
Not at all
Good guy you are. I mean it
I think the biggest problem is being casual, because if it's with a close partner that you even might probably get married to, it's way less bad