Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is casual sex before marriage bad?
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Im 28 virgin male. I have not had any girlfriend and have not had sex with any hooker even though I could. Because I want to be sexual with my wife only. Is my opinion right, or is there no harm in doing some naughty things before marriage?
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23 38Why would it be sex is healthy as fuck lol get it
Yes because it teaches you that sex is just a game and pleasure based only. Only within marriage, can sexual couples grow more intimately and spiritually. God tells us to have sex after marrying not to punish us but because He knows it is what will give us the most peace of mind. Satan likes to pervert that which God has made perfect.
Yes, it is bad.
very. it increases your chances of getting an std, getting a girl pregnant, lessening the value of sex, making it harder to be loyal... it's just a terrible idea
No. They saying is " Try before you buy"
Well I Think That Is Great For You To Wait For Your Wife.
Good luck finding a virgin wife. Use condoms.
Everyone does it. Especially girls..
While it is rare these days. There is nothing wrong with saving yourself for marriage or even just the person you know you are going to marry.
It is rare but some women like the idea of being a guys first. Almost as some guys like being a woman’s first.
Personally my one and only sexual partner in live was/is my wife. We did not wait for marriage since we started having sex with each other roughly 3 or so months into our relationship. But we did get engaged roughly 1.5 years into our relationship and about 1.5 years after that. We have been together now nearly 9 years. and currently have 2 kids under 3.
I was gonna was about 25 when we started dating and she was about 23. So do not beat yourself up for waiting. Yes it might be worrisome to hold out. But
It is possible. Sorry hit send before I was done.
You are a virgin till now. If you can handle your girls past and marry her then it’s ok. But let me tell you , chances are very lower that your future wife will be virgin as you. Especially Indian girls lie way more about sex. I have a female friends that look and behave completely innocent but had many casual partners in past. I am telling you that as a fellow Indian guy. Indian society isn’t same anymore. It’s up to you which you want to do. If you can handle her past while being a virgin guy , you should definite wait. If not , then see for other options.
You are a complete ass
Thank you. I am not telling him to get casual. That’s up to that person what he wants from life. And so to you if girls are roaming around it’s ok but for guys not right. I may be an ass but not hypocrite like you
No it's not ok on either side. Did you even read my post?
I'm from the USA lol and was a virgin goddamn
Well good for you. But look around yourself , you certainly can’t find more people like you. And second you are from USA , you don’t know about dating in India that much. Indian society overall is much conservative , Girls here lie more than western girls for fear of judgment. Also US don’t have arranged marriages. Situation is completely different.
Whatever you want man, I personally couldn’t wait and had sex first chance I got and keep on having sex because it’s great fun and healthy, but if you want to wait till marriage that’s ok too, it’s your body your choice to make
It all depends if you believe in hell or not.
get a hooker fast.
Well you haven’t had a girlfriend and may never get married so why are you waiting for something that may never happen? Just go out and get laid finally
And no it’s not bad to have it before marriage or most of us wouldn’t be here since most pregnancies are not planned and before marriage ever existed people in ancient times were having sex to have children, there wasn’t much monogamy either
I don't really see how sex can be casual. If it's in your heart to wait, why not wait?
Your wedding night will be special and you won't be comparing your wife to other women.
Personal choice. You might only be comfortable with at least being close to a woman to have sex. Doesn't necessarily mean you have to wait until marriage. Eventually waiting too long will start to fry your brain. I waited until 27 and couldn't wait any more.
No harm in casual sex as long as you aren't getting STDs or making babies.