Is first time painful?

I've never had sex and when I masturbate I never get anything inside, I tried before with my fingers but I don't know, clit feels better. I've thought about what would sex feel like, because the girth of everything I've seen just looks like too much, I wanted to get a dildo once and even the regular size ones looked huge to me and was afraid of buying it and then not being able to use it.
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  • I am not an expert on this, but I can think it through. As you are a virgin you may have part of or a complete hymen about an inch inside. If you have passed a finger to the second knuckle, you have probably passed through it. If only to one, you may not have. If you want to get the feeling of insertion, you should work your way up. Your finger has creases and prints on it which is likely to get resistance when it passes through your hymen. Something with a smooth, rounded surface will be a better option. A dildo of any size may be too much at first.

    You might consider starting out with one of these, the gray end, of course.

    Fine Sharpie
    Fine Sharpie

    It is about the same size as a finger, has a smooth finish and has a comfortably rounded "working" end. With lube or lotion. it should slide in effortlessly with little or no "pull". If you are able to and want to tolerate more girth, this might be a good choice.

    Is first time painful?


    It has a considerably greater girth than a Sharpie and a slightly rougher finish but is still easily inserted. If you have the remnants of a hymen, this will likely pull a bit. If this works out, you might graduate to this.

    Is first time painful?

    It's still only an inch in diameter but it will give you extra reach so you can know what that's like.

Most Helpful Guy

  • A few pieces of advice. Make sure for your first time you're damn good and turned on, like incredibly wet.. And make sure he is VERY clean down there. Like freshly showered if possible. And try to go slow with it. It might hurt a little, but if you stick it out, that goes away.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yess it hurts a little but worth it later on when you start getting pleasure

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  • Clit is meant for pleasure. And don't worry about girth, a baby comes out of it.
    And I am sure first time will hurt but if it was bad, there won't be wars faught for it 😂

  • Hurts a bit.

  • Definitely hurts

    • If he used lub that should help a lot

  • You'll be fine just start with your fingers

  • yup it is

  • For me being a guy my first time was quite sore. Took me 3 months of trying before it went in.

    • your dick hurt?

    • Yes my divk was sore going in but after 20 minutes it was ok. Very sore after tho.

  • I think its gonna be for you, because your really tight.

  • Offer to suck him so he doesn't have to do you too much at once. I'm no girl but imagine that doing it little by little more frequently will stretch you better.