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Is he normal or why does he want me to rape him?

I have found out that a guy has a crush on me. He admit that he has had many sexual fantasies about me. So I tell him that i wanted to fuck him with a strap-on dildo because i wanted to fool him and he respond to me that I was allowed to molest/rape him. He also often tells me that I should sexually harass him. Is he normal or are guys are like this when they are in love with a girl. I personally think that the whole with him is weird and funny.
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By the way he is not submissive at all. He has never had a real girlfriend and maybe that is why he acts like that and dont know how to interact with a girl
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I think he is only a really horny guy who wants to see naked haha
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Most Helpful Girls

  • That's a huge red flag to me.
    I'm no psychologist or psychiatrist, but he may have some deeper issues that lead him to wanting you to rape him, I'd steer clear of that guy if I were you.
    There's nothing cute to a guy telling you to rape him. There's nothing funny to it either.
    I don't think it's normal at all, it would be something else if he had been in a relationship with you for some time and then gently introduced you to his fantasies.
    You should also be aware of the fact that he may be consuming illegal pornography if this is a fantasy of his. Porn where people are actually raped is non-consensual and thus illegal.

    Please ask him why he had these fantasies and encourage him to think about this without accusing him of being creepy or weird. Also make sure that you explain to him that this is not a joke and that when you suggested pegging, you weren't being serious (unless you were).

  • He’s just super horny and will agree to anything to get naked with you.

    • Thanks for MHO💟

Most Helpful Guys

  • Meh he's hungry for it and definitely wants you.
    He didn't get that you're messing with him but chose to agree with what you want just as long as he gets his opportunity to be with you. Eventually he'll tell you that it's not his thing but he's willing if you are because he really wanna have a relationship and sex with you. And he's hoping you'll say "fine if it's not your thing let's have normal sex instead"

  • normal, guys will say anything to get sex when they're horny

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  • Yes many guys want a woman 2 take advantage of them. Especially cause they like 2 give the woman a sense of power. Another is many men have a feminine side 2 them. By having a woman take advantage or rape them. That way they get 2 feel what's it's like 2 be taken. I say don't feel weird about it. Be glad he felt like he could trust u by telling. Now do the right. Meaning get the biggest strapon u desire. Put it in on tie him up. and gag him. Then by all means fuck his ass hard and fast as hell. Make him ur bitch. I promise u once u take charge. U will be glad u did. Cause from then on he will do what u say. Just 2 get a chance 2 submit 2 ur strapon. By the way once u try it. U will truly know what it's like 2 fuck a man and enjoy it. What woman don't want a man 2 be thier bitch.

  • Well, seeing as you're the one that brought it up with him, albeit in a joking manner, the question is less one of rape since it's consensual, but do you want to fuck him? It seems like he's down with it, whether because he wants you that much, or to be taken, whatever. The ball's in your court, not his.

    Is it something you want to do?

  • People don't normally reveal fantasys until relationships are well established.

  • I wonder, really. Maybe he was abused, when he was younger, and has some unresolved issues, with that? Maybe he has self-worth, and self-esteem issues, and what he knows is what most consider sexual abuse, and rape? Yes, men can be 'raped' and it is so rarely reported, that most don't believe it can happen!

  • Ladies you better take care of those guys are going to sucker you tie them up and then you get to beat them up shove your dealing with his ass whatever you want and he'll like it and smile at yet

  • People in the bedroom are different than the people you see in public. My boyfriend is submissive in bed, you wouldn't think it though.

  • Haha for starters you said it... It's not a common guy that fits into frequent inclinations, then the porn he watch often can give you a clue of what sort of stuff he feels attracted to, as well as they're some girls that likes to get tied, forced or public fucked while choking, slapped , shared etc... they're guys that feels attracted to sce narios where he's the victim of getting sexually used or abused

    • He is actually dominant but said that i only can molest him

    • Haha well then he's giving you the key for his body , what an offer for a girl xD

  • That is a weird way to act. I’d so like to take it with a strap on, I’d do it if I was you. He must really trust you to have you do it. Experiment with him.

  • It’s just a kink. Consensual non consent play.

  • There are some funny words here in Iran about such situations where the guy says: come over to our house, I want to show you our crab who codes the computer!
    Or the chimp which translate dutch! Or anyway... Mentioning Unbelievable set of jobs.
    And it means tricks people may use to get someone to their houses
    I'm sure you got the point :D

  • Could have had trauma as a child sometimes i wanna be raped by a women with bondage but no dildo dou and candles with whip tickling sorry

  • Confident bottom.

    • Hahahaha

    • Prolly wondering why I know this lol

  • nah that nigga trippin, its just him

  • That's not normal, no

  • No, but I have the same kink
    Go for it
    Have 4 of your girlfriends hold him down

    • He's probably just turned on by the thought of a girl wanting him so badly she rapes him

  • might be a bit of a freak.

  • People have all sorts of fantasies

  • "I tell him that i wanted to fuck him with a strap-on dildo"
    and you ask him if he is the strange one? are you serious?
    ahahahahahah

    • He said he only want to ne molested by me

  • I assume he really likes you and is excited about any sexual contact between the two of you.

  • Yeah it's not normal.

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