Is hooking up despite being in a long distance relationship called cheating?

[Anonymous]

[Andres77]

Not if you talked about it first.
We did this before we got married.
It worked for us.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes you just need to screw

[Asker]

You mean it's ok to hookup while being in a long distance relationship? Like logically?

[Asker]

Coz he would be sexually deprived

[Asker]

And I'm sexually deprived too

[Opinion Owner]

I'd say it is justified.

[Daniela1982]

If you want sex a LDR is not for you. You are better off with someone from your own stomping grounds.

[Starrisunset]

I'd say yes. Unless the person you're in the LDR with has given you permission to do so. While it's completely understandable and normal to want sex, you shouldn't be in a LDR if it's something that's important to you. I personally couldn't be in a LDR for that very reason.

[Katie1964]

Shouldn't be in a relationship if you are hooking up with someone else. Unless, it is an open relationship and everyone knows its open.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why does it matter what label you apply to the behavior? The important question is whether you are violating your partner's trust by engaging in such behavior.

[SnakeBoop]

yes, unless you and your partner have sat down and said "okay partner, we are in a relationship BUT we gonna bang others on the side", then it is CHEATING

[Dazed0N0Confused]

You're in a relationship, regardless if it's long distance or not, it is STILL cheating! You've entered a relationship, claim to be in a relationship, so YES you are a cheater if you "hook up".

[boggboss]

Is it somthing u would need to hide or u would be upset about if they did it too you

[Asker]

My boyfriend said me he hookups occassionally as it's long distance relationship.. so I didn't know what to say :/

[Asker]

I have not hookup-ed yet as it's lockdown in my country. But NZ it's not lockdown.

[boggboss]

Lol so he is cheating on you and u don't know if u calss it as cheating or not sorry is this your first relationship

[Asker]

Yea it's my first relationship

[boggboss]

Its clearly cheating

[Inexpensivefurniture]

What would distance have to do with anything? If you are in a committed, monogamous relationship and you step outside of that relationship then it's cheating

[Blackcupcake]

Duh..

[exitseven]

Yes, it is cheating. Take my word for it.

[JosyJosy]

... yes.

[johnsmithjs]

What country are you from?

[JennBITx]

If you are in a relationship. No matter the distance. It is still cheating.

[Browneye57]

You mean you're committed to someone in an LDR and fucking somebody else?
Yeah, that's cheating. Dump the LDR - cuz they're a complete waste of time, and pursue the guy you can actually see and be with.

[magiusX26]

your in a relationship period. long distance or not stops factoring in once it becomes a relationship.

[Starwitch23]

If your partner doesn't know then it's cheating.

[Jamie05rhs]

Um, DUH?

[Hanrej]

Depends. Do you feel comfortable telling your partner?

[Guanfei]

Hell yeah it is, a relationship is a relationship, no matter what kind it is.

[anylolone]

Depends on the relationship agreement.

[AdriannaMay200162]

Yes it is

[Obella22]

I personally believe it is cheating

[Nachowedgie]

Obviously, are you retarded?

[Abdulwahh]

Rather leave the person then whats the point