Is hooking up despite being in a long distance relationship called cheating?

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  • Not if you talked about it first.
    We did this before we got married.
    It worked for us.

  • Sometimes you just need to screw

    • You mean it's ok to hookup while being in a long distance relationship? Like logically?

    • Coz he would be sexually deprived

    • And I'm sexually deprived too

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  • If you want sex a LDR is not for you. You are better off with someone from your own stomping grounds.

  • I'd say yes. Unless the person you're in the LDR with has given you permission to do so. While it's completely understandable and normal to want sex, you shouldn't be in a LDR if it's something that's important to you. I personally couldn't be in a LDR for that very reason.

  • Shouldn't be in a relationship if you are hooking up with someone else. Unless, it is an open relationship and everyone knows its open.

  • Why does it matter what label you apply to the behavior? The important question is whether you are violating your partner's trust by engaging in such behavior.

  • yes, unless you and your partner have sat down and said "okay partner, we are in a relationship BUT we gonna bang others on the side", then it is CHEATING

  • You're in a relationship, regardless if it's long distance or not, it is STILL cheating! You've entered a relationship, claim to be in a relationship, so YES you are a cheater if you "hook up".

  • Is it somthing u would need to hide or u would be upset about if they did it too you

    • My boyfriend said me he hookups occassionally as it's long distance relationship.. so I didn't know what to say :/

    • I have not hookup-ed yet as it's lockdown in my country. But NZ it's not lockdown.

    • Lol so he is cheating on you and u don't know if u calss it as cheating or not sorry is this your first relationship

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  • What would distance have to do with anything? If you are in a committed, monogamous relationship and you step outside of that relationship then it's cheating

  • Duh..

  • Yes, it is cheating. Take my word for it.

  • ... yes.

  • What country are you from?

  • If you are in a relationship. No matter the distance. It is still cheating.

  • You mean you're committed to someone in an LDR and fucking somebody else?
    Yeah, that's cheating. Dump the LDR - cuz they're a complete waste of time, and pursue the guy you can actually see and be with.

  • your in a relationship period. long distance or not stops factoring in once it becomes a relationship.

  • If your partner doesn't know then it's cheating.

  • Um, DUH?

  • Depends. Do you feel comfortable telling your partner?

  • Hell yeah it is, a relationship is a relationship, no matter what kind it is.

  • Depends on the relationship agreement.

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