You already know the answer. He may just like you too.
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Coulis
+1 y
No doubt. To what degree though?
JamieLoves
+1 y
Ask him
Coulis
+1 y
I will. Not yet.
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JamieLoves
+1 y
Good ! That what you need to do.
In_TranceMaster
+1 y
no, sometimes they're serial killers
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Omar5881Guru
+1 y
He probably wants to talk to you but waiting for the green light from you which is looking back and smiling
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Coulis
+1 y
This is quite likely. He has to be patient.
Omar5881
+1 y
Hmm don’t play hard to get such a childish move if you like him just give him the green light already
Coulis
+1 y
No no there's is no child's play going on. LOL. It's very adult.
andy530Guru
+1 y
To me it is
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Coulis
+1 y
And with a head tilt?
andy530
+1 y
Trying to figure you out ans flirt
Coulis
+1 y
Why would a guy want to figure out a girl?
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andy530
+1 y
Because her mind is one of the most attractive parts of a girl
Coulis
+1 y
This is so true!
shaltXper 4
+1 y
Anytime I make that specific gesture, it's pure annoyance. Now, WITHOUT the head tilt. Now that's a guy just wanting to stare at you. To see all of of you, can be a turn on, especially if strong feelings are involved
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Coulis
+1 y
Pure annoyance. Oooh. Watch out. Thanks. Thanks was really clear.
anyloloneYoda
+1 y
Nope.
Use your empathetic drive correctly instead of positivity bias, just because you want to fuck them in the time you noticed, doesn't mean you don't do it otherwise.
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Coulis
+1 y
This doesn't make sense to me and not getting the profanity.
anylolone
+1 y
"prophanity", lol. It should be easy to understand. You should know that you do not only stare sexually and therefore neither do others. A fixed stare is an attempt at reading the facial expressions or a way to grab attention. I do it literally every time I do groceries while waiting for the password cue if I don't feel free to press enter on their stead. I do this at public transport, trying to figure out who's gonna leave early so I can get the seat, lol! (Basically searching for anxiousness or anticipation that would disclose that their stop is near.)
ChimeguyXper 2
+1 y
There’s also another reason men stare intensely at someone. Challenge or aggression towards that person. That stare I’m sure you don’t want to see.
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Coulis
+1 y
Hmm. Is that the stare I'm getting.
Chimeguy
+1 y
Doubt it. You can easily tell that. I just thought you wanted to know reasons men stare.
msc545Master
+1 y
No, not always
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Coulis
+1 y
Care to elaborate?
msc545
+1 y
Sure. People make extended eye contact for many reasons including sexual interest, anger, or thinking you are someone else. You really can't infer much from the eye contact alone.
Coulis
+1 y
True!
TjsmooveXper 5
+1 y
not always and if ya good at readin body language ya can tell
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awebeeXper 2
+1 y
Yes n that's not a bad thing. Attraction is enhanced by our abiltity to picture our selves in an intamate setting with the person were looking at. believe it or not whether we hook up is largely based you picturing me even momentarily as an intamate partner. Intense eye contact paints creative pictures.. naughty thoughts goes with the territory.. n if you don't see me in that light... I didn't convey the vibes necessary for you open your self to the idea...
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Coulis
+1 y
So positive vibes then.
awebee
+1 y
I go that route.. in most cases with out oversexaulised imagery.. Pretty sure that what separates the gents from the pervs
rebeliouseExplorer
+1 y
@coulis pretty much
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Coulis
+1 y
Cool. I would love for you to elaborate and possibly when it may be something else.
rebeliouse
+1 y
dm me?
kevyhanmaXper 6
+1 y
I only intensely stare at things i think of killing
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Coulis
+1 y
You understand I had to dislike this, right?
loves2learn
+1 y
I concur
kevyhanma
+1 y
No I don’t I’m a hunter it’s what we do
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kevyhanma
+1 y
Do you know another way to catch a deer or a rabbit
kevyhanma
+1 y
@loves2learn jerk
Coulis
+1 y
Excuse me. @kevyhanma Don't Insult my commenters. You totally posted this ambigouously to make people think anything you look at like that you want to kill. I e people.
kevyhanma
+1 y
That could also mean food Or pedophiles I feel like you took it the wrong way tbh
ayomanwyaXper 6
+1 y
He intensely likes you
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Coulis
+1 y
That's a nice thought and a secret hope.
Vickysplash_Xper 6
+1 y
No it could also be a psycho, or a werewolf
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Coulis
+1 y
I love your paranoia.
Omega_brie
+1 y
I can help you with this. Often times, I get into a mood where I'm just very comfortable. I feel very secure and flexible and unashamed of anything. In such moods, I often make intense eye contact with women. It can lead to something sexual, but I don't actually have sex on my mind when doing this. I'm just living in the moment. I also tend to touch women more, usually on the shoulder/arm.
Coulis
+1 y
@Omega_brie This very insightful. It's more about feeling comfortable to increase or establish a connection.
cndni80Xper 5
+1 y
Of course
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Anonymous
+1 y
sounds more like a predatory gaze or something
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Coulis
+1 y
I think there is akqays a predatory element re men towards women. It doesn't make me scared.
anylolone
+1 y
Of course, there's the same element on you.
Coulis
+1 y
@anylolone Oh for sure. I thunk women are like hawks and men are like wolves.
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Opinion Owner
+1 y
ah yes women are no chance vs my predatory tickles hugs and kisses
Anonymous
+1 y
If it’s not sexual it’s not good
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Anonymous
+1 y
I stare at people to stay alert of my surroundings.
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Dinosaursandanime65
+1 y
If you really want to know what’s going on, look EVERYWHERE. Sometimes, people aren’t the threat. Most of the time though. Heads down, legs closed, eyes open, ears listening, and Hunkin Ragor. WHAT DA HELL HAPPENED TO MA SWAMP?
Anonymous
+1 y
You already know the answer. Get divorced before you do something.
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Coulis
+1 y
Oh no indeed! I am getting a divorce but not because of this guy. I love to see people in your age group posting such advice. 👑
Opinion Owner
+1 y
I've been this site for a long time and seeing this question just made me remember a previous one of yours and after reading other replies doing 1+1=2 I just stated what seemed obvious to me.
Opinion Owner
+1 y
*in this site
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Coulis
+1 y
Yes, actually re reading through the site it was quite disturbing how many people jist jump i to an affair because they have an attraction to someone. In my case, we both actually ran away from each other. It's been very torturous but the thing to do. I threw myself into my marriage because it isn't uncommon for inconvenient crushes to happen. Sadly, in my case, my husband rejected the idea of really strengthening our connection. An issue that actually been years long that I was the only one really trying to remedy. But I never pressed the issue because the backlash wasn't worth dealing with. Because this is serious I pushed even harder and really dug deep. It opened up a whole other can of worms and once we got to the heart of the issue it was even worse than I could have ever imagined. Ready to be alone and don't have my future pinned on anyone.
Opinion Owner
+1 y
I understood your situation from your previous questions, that's why I told you to get divorced before anything. And another thing.. it might be just me being weird but when a guy likes a girl he's the only one that's staring, he doesn't set up his mates to stare at the girl. I mean if he just liked you he would have just approached you, what is he going to with the information he's getting from others? it's not like he needs any extra info other than that you're married. I feel like there's some hidden reason behind all that spying.
Coulis
+1 y
I can answer that. Not in North America so culturally it isn't so weird here to stare and try to figure out a person or get info about them indirectly. Not uncommon for people to work together so I think they were put on the task of watching my every move to see how I act IRL. The staring has stopped. And a weird thing happened. One of his colleagues would say hi to me and I would just respond. Now acts like he doesn't see me. As if he were told not to speak to me.
Opinion Owner
+1 y
Well then if those things are culturally okay then what they're doing is beyond my understanding. And I don't want to kill any more brain cells trying to think out what's up with his colleague. I'll just be telling you to be careful because bad things happen sometimes.
Coulis
+1 y
Thanks for answering!
Anonymous
+1 y
More often than not it’s a form of aggression.
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Coulis
+1 y
Yes, it can be but I think there's more coldness. Also, the rest of the body language points to flirting. I
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14 50You already know the answer. He may just like you too.
No doubt. To what degree though?
Ask him
I will. Not yet.
Good ! That what you need to do.
no, sometimes they're serial killers
He probably wants to talk to you but waiting for the green light from you which is looking back and smiling
This is quite likely. He has to be patient.
Hmm don’t play hard to get such a childish move if you like him just give him the green light already
No no there's is no child's play going on. LOL. It's very adult.
To me it is
And with a head tilt?
Trying to figure you out ans flirt
Why would a guy want to figure out a girl?
Because her mind is one of the most attractive parts of a girl
This is so true!
Anytime I make that specific gesture, it's pure annoyance. Now, WITHOUT the head tilt. Now that's a guy just wanting to stare at you. To see all of of you, can be a turn on, especially if strong feelings are involved
Pure annoyance. Oooh. Watch out. Thanks. Thanks was really clear.
Nope.
Use your empathetic drive correctly instead of positivity bias, just because you want to fuck them in the time you noticed, doesn't mean you don't do it otherwise.
This doesn't make sense to me and not getting the profanity.
"prophanity", lol. It should be easy to understand. You should know that you do not only stare sexually and therefore neither do others. A fixed stare is an attempt at reading the facial expressions or a way to grab attention. I do it literally every time I do groceries while waiting for the password cue if I don't feel free to press enter on their stead. I do this at public transport, trying to figure out who's gonna leave early so I can get the seat, lol! (Basically searching for anxiousness or anticipation that would disclose that their stop is near.)
There’s also another reason men stare intensely at someone. Challenge or aggression towards that person. That stare I’m sure you don’t want to see.
Hmm. Is that the stare I'm getting.
Doubt it. You can easily tell that. I just thought you wanted to know reasons men stare.
No, not always
Care to elaborate?
Sure. People make extended eye contact for many reasons including sexual interest, anger, or thinking you are someone else. You really can't infer much from the eye contact alone.
True!
not always and if ya good at readin body language ya can tell
Yes n that's not a bad thing. Attraction is enhanced by our abiltity to picture our selves in an intamate setting with the person were looking at. believe it or not whether we hook up is largely based you picturing me even momentarily as an intamate partner.
Intense eye contact paints creative pictures.. naughty thoughts goes with the territory.. n if you don't see me in that light... I didn't convey the vibes necessary for you open your self to the idea...
So positive vibes then.
I go that route.. in most cases with out oversexaulised imagery.. Pretty sure that what separates the gents from the pervs
@coulis
pretty much
Cool. I would love for you to elaborate and possibly when it may be something else.
dm me?
I only intensely stare at things i think of killing
You understand I had to dislike this, right?
I concur
No I don’t I’m a hunter it’s what we do
Do you know another way to catch a deer or a rabbit
@loves2learn jerk
Excuse me. @kevyhanma Don't Insult my commenters. You totally posted this ambigouously to make people think anything you look at like that you want to kill. I e people.
That could also mean food Or pedophiles I feel like you took it the wrong way tbh
He intensely likes you
That's a nice thought and a secret hope.
No it could also be a psycho, or a werewolf
I love your paranoia.
I can help you with this. Often times, I get into a mood where I'm just very comfortable. I feel very secure and flexible and unashamed of anything. In such moods, I often make intense eye contact with women. It can lead to something sexual, but I don't actually have sex on my mind when doing this. I'm just living in the moment. I also tend to touch women more, usually on the shoulder/arm.
@Omega_brie This very insightful. It's more about feeling comfortable to increase or establish a connection.
Of course
sounds more like a predatory gaze or something
I think there is akqays a predatory element re men towards women. It doesn't make me scared.
Of course, there's the same element on you.
@anylolone Oh for sure. I thunk women are like hawks and men are like wolves.
ah yes women are no chance vs my predatory tickles hugs and kisses
If it’s not sexual it’s not good
I stare at people to stay alert of my surroundings.
If you really want to know what’s going on, look EVERYWHERE. Sometimes, people aren’t the threat. Most of the time though. Heads down, legs closed, eyes open, ears listening, and Hunkin Ragor. WHAT DA HELL HAPPENED TO MA SWAMP?
You already know the answer. Get divorced before you do something.
Oh no indeed! I am getting a divorce but not because of this guy. I love to see people in your age group posting such advice. 👑
I've been this site for a long time and seeing this question just made me remember a previous one of yours and after reading other replies doing 1+1=2 I just stated what seemed obvious to me.
*in this site
Yes, actually re reading through the site it was quite disturbing how many people jist jump i to an affair because they have an attraction to someone. In my case, we both actually ran away from each other. It's been very torturous but the thing to do. I threw myself into my marriage because it isn't uncommon for inconvenient crushes to happen. Sadly, in my case, my husband rejected the idea of really strengthening our connection. An issue that actually been years long that I was the only one really trying to remedy. But I never pressed the issue because the backlash wasn't worth dealing with. Because this is serious I pushed even harder and really dug deep. It opened up a whole other can of worms and once we got to the heart of the issue it was even worse than I could have ever imagined. Ready to be alone and don't have my future pinned on anyone.
I understood your situation from your previous questions, that's why I told you to get divorced before anything. And another thing.. it might be just me being weird but when a guy likes a girl he's the only one that's staring, he doesn't set up his mates to stare at the girl. I mean if he just liked you he would have just approached you, what is he going to with the information he's getting from others? it's not like he needs any extra info other than that you're married. I feel like there's some hidden reason behind all that spying.
I can answer that. Not in North America so culturally it isn't so weird here to stare and try to figure out a person or get info about them indirectly. Not uncommon for people to work together so I think they were put on the task of watching my every move to see how I act IRL. The staring has stopped. And a weird thing happened. One of his colleagues would say hi to me and I would just respond. Now acts like he doesn't see me. As if he were told not to speak to me.
Well then if those things are culturally okay then what they're doing is beyond my understanding. And I don't want to kill any more brain cells trying to think out what's up with his colleague. I'll just be telling you to be careful because bad things happen sometimes.
Thanks for answering!
More often than not it’s a form of aggression.
Yes, it can be but I think there's more coldness. Also, the rest of the body language points to flirting. I