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Sexual Health Girls, is it a deal breaker if he can't make you orgasm?
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my boyfriend just can not make me orgasm. he just does whatever feels good for him and when he's done, we're done. it feels good for me too but im never anywhere near an orgasm. even when we had sex for 5 hours. i constantly bring up foreplay but he spends barely any time on that, i guide his hands to touch me in specific places, he does but only if i guide them. i tell him what i like, the majority of the time he forgets. everything else in our relationship is going great like we never argue, we get along perfectly, he's always going out of his way to make me happy (except for in bed!) and we have a lot of fun together but now im just getting really frustrated because he wants to have sex a lot but its only for his pleasure.
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What Girls Said
(23)That depends. If it was in the start of a relationship, it can always be improved upon. But if he still can't get me off after a while, then yes it's a deal breaker.
If I was in your situation, I'd break up since he doesn't seem to even care about your pleasure.
I can't recall the specific term for it but lots of people have something like selfish sex where you do to and take what you want from him. It sounds onesided rn so just do whatever the hell you want in bed. Whatever makes u feel good just do it. You have eye candy right in front of you so please eachother and yourself. Just do and stop stressing it, good sex is mindless. he's a bit different in bed so see if u can adjust. you'll be better off and more satisfied.
Not sure its my cup of tea but just an option
Sounds like you feel he is being selfish. And he probably is. Have a discussion about it. Ask him to put in effort on your part. Listen to his side of things. Come to an agreement.
Yep... deal breaker
I've never understood that feeling. We tried it once the other day and he said I was too tight and we stopped but before I could feel every little move he made
Work on it! That's all you can do really. Coming from someone who has been in a similar situation before, there's ways to work around it. Trust me. But if it really bothers you that much, I'd say end it. It's not fair to you or to him.
no guy has made me cum, so... maybe it's me the one with the problem lol
but when I masturbate i can cum like 7 times in a day
If I can make him orgasm and he cannot do the same to me, he's absolutely useless and dump-worthy!
I wouldn't break up with him if everything else is great. It is concerning that even though you tell him what you want he doesn't do it. Perhaps you could tell him you want to improve things because you dont want to lose interest in sex (a lot of women do).
time to get a new man