Girls, is it a deal breaker if he can't make you orgasm?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend just can not make me orgasm. he just does whatever feels good for him and when he's done, we're done. it feels good for me too but im never anywhere near an orgasm. even when we had sex for 5 hours. i constantly bring up foreplay but he spends barely any time on that, i guide his hands to touch me in specific places, he does but only if i guide them. i tell him what i like, the majority of the time he forgets. everything else in our relationship is going great like we never argue, we get along perfectly, he's always going out of his way to make me happy (except for in bed!) and we have a lot of fun together but now im just getting really frustrated because he wants to have sex a lot but its only for his pleasure.

[Anonymous]

You are not a doll he can play with in bed. Sex is supposed to be enjoyed by both parts, and it sounds like he is just selfish.

If I were you I would talk to him, he is your boyfriend and he should make you feel good.