Is it a red flag if he always turns the conversation sexual?

like he will tell me bizarre sexual stories every day
a few of them where
That his best friend is a sex addict and he got dumped because of it and how he might buy him a flesh light
- that his brother broken a social distancing rule and apparently came home covered in hickeys
- that he walked in on his friend in his house ejaculating on someone’s face

I mean... what even
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think everyday would be a little much for anyone being honest. I’d be tempted to say that over half of it just isn’t true. It would be a turn off for me not and I would have to ask them to just keep it too themselves and being truthful I would put me off them

    • It’s bizarre it feels like he’s inexperienced and maybe trying to see how far he can go with it. But I don’t want to know about these things every time we chat so I think I will be honest with him then go our separate ways

  • Red flag is an understatement. Your course of action is..

    Is it a red flag if he always turns the conversation sexual?

Most Helpful Girls

  • in my opinion yes, it seems like that he maybe sexualises you and tells you these stories to try and initiate something?

  • That's weirdddd... it'd make me uncomfortable! you should distance yourself from him.

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  • it's worrying that he has one saved for every day, it's like his seeking out sexual content.

  • Sounds like he was trying to see if he could pique your interest, or that he was "hitting on you" (if in an oafish way)

  • Wtf... Yes probally so...

  • I would be carefully.🌞

  • Some people are normal in public, but sex addicts in private, what's wrong with that?

  • Yeah. If I were you I'd stop talking to that guy.

    • Yeah. It’s just bizarre like after once or twice I understand but more than three times is a pattern. I think I will let him go for sure

    • Yeah, and the thing is that after a while and with very specific and odd stories like his it's quite clear he tells them to you because his own stories turn him on. They're probably not even true but things he fantasizes about. And by telling them to you as real stories, he can kinda live them out in a way. He's totally using you for that.

    • And not that it necesaarily matters, but he's apparently into guys aa well.

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  • Yes sounds not good

  • it works on some girls, a lot of girls actually. make it clear u ent one of em

  • Yes its weird and yes he's probs lying even if hé say s hé isn't he is

  • Yes. It is.

  • Yeah that's weird it has nothing to add to your experience with him except creeper

  • just means he's a perv and looking to get off on telling you that stuff. Up to you if you mind or not

    • Oh I’m definitely cutting him off. A bit disrespectful

  • You are nothing but a sexual option.

  • If you feel uncomfortable then talk to him about it. You could come to some agreement such as him having a method to exhaust his 'sexual appetite' in some other way. If you still feel uncomfortable around him, then move on.

    I can't stress how important it is to talk through issues in a relationship. You don't have to start of serious. You could bring it up casually whenever he mentions it, to understand what he's thinking.

  • Yes, it is.

    I had a girl like that. She would use sex to change a topic too. I felt something was wrong, yet believed her thinking it was because she loved me too much.