Is it bad if I don't want to give a blowjob?

Question

The whole concept of it just freaks me out I don't know.

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

It is of course, a matter of personal choice.

AND... considering that you literally ARE what you consume AND... that human semen contains LITERALLY all the DNA that makes your intimate companion whom and what they physically are, AND... as there is NO chance of pregnancy from oral copulation. Your animal gets to experience and KNOW on a cellular level, 'whom' your 'Beloved' s animal truly is. So long as your companion has NO sexually-transmitted diseases, the 'taste' of human semen varies, based upon the diet of that particular male. No two male's semen tastes the same. Human 'slurpies'! ;)

integrale77 · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't personally hold it against you and it is your decision.

Some guys might feel cheated if you won't reciprocate them giving you oral (not me I love licking pussy).

Please elaborate as to why you get freaked out by it?
When you share some reasons for your dislike we might be able to give some suggestions on how to get around it.

CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

Don't feel bad about it, I think most women felt squeamish about it at first. I would say have an open mind and maybe explore and see if you really like it. Feelings of disgust decreases when you are sexually aroused so basically when you are in the mood you could actually end up enjoying it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Only reason I don't like it is because it usually smells awful. It's not fair if I'm always putting in effort to make sure my cooch stays fresh and clean, but a guy can't even wash their junk. There needs to be a line of personal care products specifically for men's junk.

AustinMan · Answer

It can be a show stopper. Here're some tips. We can DM about it if you like.

Jasmin0701 · Answer

If you don't want, you mustn't do it. It's only yours, if you want or not. If your guy loves you, he surely won't ever put pressure on you. Otherwise, if you love him, maybe you'll abandon your qualm and give him head anyway.

MrKinktastic · Answer

It’s fine, do it if you want to, learn to do something else like a proper handjob of the idea of a dick in your mouth grosses you out. Or just focus on whatever it is you do like

Don-__-Don · Answer

No, it's going to most likely disappoint him, but other than that it'll be okay

Jenny4455 · Answer

Why does it freak you out?

bowenw · Answer

There is no normal. If you're not comfortable, don't do it. If at some point you want to try, take baby steps, for example start by licking the shaft or head a couple of times and leave it at that. A good guy that's into you will understand.

the_imperfectionist · Answer

No. Just talk to your partner about it to see if he's okay with that and to avoid any unmet expectations

chriscdi · Answer

depends if the person cares for blowjobs or not

Danny_dan92 · Answer

🤣🤣🤣 standard female shit. But you really love your pussy being eaten huh?

KatherineJ · Answer

If you don’t feel comfortable, then don’t.

SouthGeorgiaGirl · Answer

Wow. Just wow

Iknowbestgirls · Answer

Too be honest I don't think you will get very far in bed with a man if you don't suck his dick. It's a bit of a requirement for most men. Watch some blow job videos so you can get a feel for how it should be. Once you are in the mood though you're nervous inhabiting about sucking dick will go away and you'll just do it in the moment and not even think about it... Next thing you know your a Blowjob queen.

Jonnywayne · Answer

It's not bad, but eventually your guy feels a bit disappointed. But whatever you'll do, it's only your decision.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

You don't have to do it if you don't feel comfortable doing that.

oncpl · Answer

It is not bad but generally guys love to receive bj.

Wise4myage · Answer

That would cause problems if we were dating, but its your choice.

Quidthonian · Answer

No, its not bad. I don't like receiving them.

dudeinohio · Answer

Yes, it is bad.

Juxtapose · Answer

You're gonna be single for awhile with that attitude.

Twalli · Answer

Are you fine with never receiving cunnilingus?

shanshu · Answer

Don't expect to be eaten out then, it's all about give and take, but if no oral then make sure you have lube to help with sex

OddBeMe · Answer

No don’t let anyone pressure you. The more experienced I got in sex the more I enjoyed giving oral

Valnac · Answer

That’s fine, you may change your mind later, but for now it’s ok.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

You have your reasons, but eventually, if you really like the guy, you should try it at least once.

CharlieDMX · Answer

No, it's perfectly normal. Not eeveryone likes everything

coolhandroo · Answer

Yes this is terrible. Practice, train, focus, (I'm available nights and weekends for reversal if you need me) but learn to love it because it is awful if you dont

msc545 · Answer

It's not bad, but you probably shouldn't expect oral sex from guys either.

CubaPirate · Answer

Not at all I'd rather give a girl oral than receive it tbh

Yourman89 · Answer

Dont knock it until you try it 🤣

JamesTorquay · Answer

Understandable is it the hygiene because I like clean people, its not bad if he loves u then its no problem,, do what u want if they don't like it tuff, sex is to enjoy