Most Helpful Guys

  • Any "FANTASY" is OK, as long as you know it is FANTASY, and not something you would actually do!!
    There is a MULTI-MILLION dollar industry, based in sensual, erotic stories, and books, and one of the most common, is a woman being 'coerced' and "enticed" into cheating, with some erotic man!

  • That's a big red flag to yourself. Your subconscious is letting you know that you're missing something in your relationship.

    • true.

Most Helpful Girl

  • People will say "not as long as you dont act on it". Uhm you will as pedophiles do. Both are fantasies, both very bad fantasies, one worse than the other but fantasies and human body looks forward to feed that black hole.

    • I have had a fantasy to kill someone i hated before but i didn't and many many people have thought about killing someone at some point but never did it. Just cause you have a fantasy don't mean you will act on it. idiot.

    • @Kaneki05 lol those are dreams to me, I am talking about sexual fantasies, fucktard.

    • fantasies are fantasies you calling that a dream when it is fantasy don't actually change anything smh. And they do not mean you must and will do them.

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  • Nope, not at all even I have a same fantasy too. But I don't have anyone to complete this fantasy of mine.

    • It is bad to cheat on someone. Smh

  • no longs if you know it's not a thing to replicate. Just as normal people want to murder someone at some point in there life for getting them mad but we don't punish those for thinking that do we?
    Nor is it bad because they didn't act out on it.

  • No, as long as you don't act on them and you are not thinking about cheating on your partner.
    The thought of being unfaithful is a reason why people cheat, the thrill, the taboo, and it's all fine as long as it never crosses the line between fantasy and reality.

  • yes, it is

  • Lol it definitely is if your married, otherwise no because you can fulfill those fantasies

  • In your case I suppose it means you just wanna get dp’d

  • Kinda.
    Stop thinking about it, or it might affect your relationship.

  • cheating fantasies?

  • Yes. That's really bad. Please block me now. I think you're despicable and I want nothing to do with you.

    • but I wouldn't date you lol

    • Okay; cool. Then at least we agree on that.

  • Its not good to have such fantasies, and especially if you are with someone.

  • No as long as you keep them as fantasies.

  • Fantasies are great when they stay, as a fantasy...

  • Hell no

  • No no it's very good.. it's very healthy for your relationship. You gotta be kidding me lol.

  • Thoughts initiate actions so it is bad

  • very bad

    it means you have deep family issues that you need therapy for

  • not if it doesn't evolve into actual cheating.
    fantasies are fine. it's your imagination wanting to give you a fresh perspective and that' okay. As long as you don't hurt your partner. tell them about it and you can role play together.

  • No it's normal

  • No it’s just a fantasy

  • No, in your mind you can do whatever you like.

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