It sounds like he just wants sex and nothing more. You also need to talk to him on what your expectations are in a friends with benefits relationship. It sounds like you want the "friends" part more then he does.
How is the sex with him? I hope you are getting some great orgasms out of it and not just him?
It’s good but it’s very affectionate and passionate and sometimes in the moment i just think to myself ‘why can’t you want me the way i want you’ so it’s probably not healthy lol
It is a friends with benefits thing. More like a FB for him.
He messages you when he is horny, you show up, do it, and leave.
If you want more than that, then maybe you need to find a guy who cares a little.
OR, get a boyfriend who will care a lot.
Thanks for the MHO. :)
Isn't that the point. He messages, you both fuck, say Thanks then go your separate ways until you need fucked again?
Sure but don’t you think it wouldn’t hurt for him to text me asking if i’m okay afterwards lol
Nope. I think you are catching feelings
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It sounds to me like you want a higher emotional investment from him than he wants. If you want to take this to another level, talk to him about it.
I just don’t know what to say, i don’t wanna push him away. I do want more. I told him a few months ago i was fine with just having fun but i’m not
So how about talking about both your fantasies. That can give you some openings to maybe move the agenda. Are you submissive? Does kink appeal?
Isn't that what friends with benefits is supposed to be? Sex without feelings? Why should he feel anything for you? He is just using you for sexual gratification.
No that's just wrong it's. friends with benefits FRIENDS FIRST Before anything so let me ask you let's say you want to get laid can you call him* right
Yes.
Perhaps you two have different views of the relationship.
Hit me up if you want to talk about it
Bitch give him that pussy and shut up
Contacts are restrained with "friends with benefits" but the occasional friendly text, such as: "Nice visit the other day" is what friends would do.
You would think a friend would treat you better. This sounds like a non-friends with benefits arrangement.
No. But you guys are just friends with benefits.
So he don't have any obligation to feel something else then sex desire when it com to you. Same from you to him.
I think you are expecting too much. I figure a fuck buddy doesn't actually have to be your friend, and it sounds like he isn't really interested in anything but sex with you.
Though I suppose it could also be that he's just the quiet type? :p
Yeah i know he does not want a relationship at all since that’s what he’s said but we really get along as friends and spend the whole night with each other and sleepover so it just upsets me that he can’t send me a simple text asking if i’m okay or something
I get that :/ I'd be upset too then.
Do you message him in non-sexual contexts and were you friends before the benefits?
It sounds like you both need to get on the same page, because you might have a different interpretation of your arrangement than he does.
You want a partner not a fuck buddy.
He's got the benefits. A message might help define that "friend" part though, yes.
You likely are expecting to much, but It wouldn't hurt to send you a text either. Make sure he knows It would make you feel more appreciated if he texted you.
you're his cumdumpster. He's not obliged to say anything else.
No offense but, you're a cumrag, nothing more, you shouldn't expect shit from him other than sex and you're getting that, period.
That's your relationship.
friends with benefits is for losers
It's what friends with benefits is all about, adding that care emotional side will start to insinuate that there's something more.
he's prob trying to keep it on a non emotional caring level and just keep it physical, he doesn't want to lead you on to show there could be more than it is.
I see where your coming from but if you are starting to feel more for him then I'd say break up this arrangement now because it sounds like your the one that's going to get hurt
You are his go to pussy if he can' t have a strange piece of pussy or his girlfriend has her period YOU have the honor to be his piece of pussy for the fuck and forget about till the next time he needs a pussy to fuck. Do yourself a favor get rid of him unless you like this set up
How do i change this
Get rid of him find some one new. There are thousands of guys that would treat you better and not ask as much
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