Not at all!
Our bodies aren't shut down sexually as we are falling asleep or as we coming out of sleep or even in deep sleep.
The good thing is that in the twilight of being between sleep and wakefulness we are highly relaxed without the daily stress of life. Most girls I have been with enjoy being spooned, with me cupping their breast with her nipples between my fingers as we settle into sleep. I certainly enjoy the comfort of her body against mine.
What you are doing is not so different in essence.
After evening sex, I greatly like my girl cuddling up and holding my penis as we settle into sleep.
This is not sex as we conventionally think of it. But it is certainly enjoying the sexual characteristics of your partner's body. We don't have a good word for this in general - only for specific actions cuddling/hugging, groping/caressing. It might perhaps be best expressed as 'having gender' that is simply enjoying your partners gender. Can't think of a better descriptive.
I think what you are doing is great and I would love to experience what you are giving your boyfriend.
For me, it has mostly been on the waking side of sleep. Sometimes a girlfriend has turned in her sleep rousing me to reposition with my arm going back round her. In my sleep my hand has gone to her groin and I have instinctually fingered her. Rarely we have settled back into sleep with my finger inside her and we have both woken to that surprise and dim rememberance.
Sleep sex is good and we should explore our inner incubus/succubus.
Some might be puritanically politically correct but ignore them. I am sure your boyfriend is very happy with his wonderful sexy succubus.
Well, if it's become an outright requirement for either of you, that's likely to cause problems down the line; the odds of you being able to sleep together every single night, at the same time, for the rest of your lives is quite low. But if it's just something you both enjoy very much, that's fine; it- wait a second.
Are you saying you both doze off with him still hard? I find that kinda hard to believe; as a guy, that's the kind of thing that holds your focus; I can see falling asleep once or twice if you're truly exhausted, but not six nights in a row. If you mean just continually sucking on it like a pacifier or a piece of straw, regardless of its hardness, then that's a little different; that I could actually see helping him drift off. It's one of those things halfway between sex and cuddling, that make a guy feel protected and cared for, in addition to loved, that more guys appreciate than will admit, and FAR more would appreciate than will try.
In either case, though, don't let yourself be abused; just stick with what's mutually enjoyable, and you'll do just fine.
TROLL.
1st off - his dick would've shrunk down after he got off and yet supposedly you fell asleep sucking it?
2nd - if he was still hard & you were sucking it, then he either has no feeling in his dick or he's got low comprehension. That'd keep most guys awake.
3rd - if you fell asleep how'd you keep sucking it - in sleep you'd have stopped - unless you still have the infantical habit of sucking your thumb or a pacificer.
I give you credit cause I hate sucking dick. I think it’s gross in so many aspects. Whatever floats your boat tho. 🤷🏽♀️
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!if a man wants a blowjob from you that's a good thing... but i'd just suck him once as in he cums he goes to sleep
If you both like it, then gonfor it. Nothing wrong with it.
I don't know how you didn't gag after you had fallen asleep. Also, how did you suck on it after it had shrunk down in size? Something sounds sketchy.
When a man says he can't sleep without a blowjob the question you've got to ask is who the fuck was gobbling you before your first girlfriend?
very true
You are completely wrong! I guarantee that if you do not suck him, he will eventually fall asleep.
haha that's the best one i've heard yet. no one has ever tried that line on me
Yes! Seeing ponytail go in is enough to get me hard!
If it works I'm sure he enjoys it. Does he like handjobs also?
The important thing is does he return the favor? You deserve a good orgasm each time also!!!
You buy that bullshit? Gayle Gullible.
I usually can’t fall asleep without getting off. I usually do it myself. I can take responsibility for that. …but the idea of a girlfriend who would blow me every night is a huge turn on! …but he should not impose this on you. If it’s fun, that’s great. If it’s a chore, then he can do it himself most nights.
I guess he's become addicted.
Yeah it is. Sounds like a cheap excuse or addiction to me.
It's not bad if you both enjoy it.
exactly
He's lying
Nope, that sounds wonderful as a daily routine thing tbh.
Will you marry me?
He's lying. I love cuddling and spooning with my girlfriend. But sometimes I like sleeping by myself. We don't live together obviously. But most of the time I want her in my arms.
i completly understand what you mean by that when i was with my ex we loved hugs spooning and i know what you mean sometimes even though you love them u miss ure own bed to spread out nd be comfy in full bed to youself is great but so are hugs and spooning but sometimes i missed my own bed to spread out on
Lmao start waking him up with a suck also.
Yes continue, do you have a younger sister?
Both are married lol
This is so GaG!
It's a problem that both of you've conditioned yourself into sleeping by giving him a blowjob.
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