Is it better to leave the bra on during sex if I don't have pretty breasts?

Question

I really am cursed in this matter, my boobs aren't nice at all. It really makes sex life and even dating much harder than it normally is. Explaining this to guys usually leads nowhere.

I don't know what else to do, I can't afford a plastic surgery (and tbh I am scared of it) so I'm wondering what do you guys think is better for a woman of my case. Leave the bra on or not?

It's hard to feel confident and good looking when some parts of your body don't fit the criteria.

Berethor · Accepted Answer

Your breasts don't need to be perfect for a guy to to like them, and most guys prefer natural breasts over fake breasts, so you don't need a plastic surgery. One hand you would be having the most intimate act with him but on the other hand you would not trust him to see all of you? I think that you should show him your breasts at least one time and let him to decide if he want you to leave the bra on during sex with him, you think that he would get traumas from seeing your breasts and would never be able to have sex with you again? I doubt that. That being said at least you are insecure only about your breasts, some girls are insecure about their whole body, and yea technically you can have sex with a bra on, it's just that most guys like breasts, and prefer the girl to take off her bra on during sex.

John_Galt · Accepted Answer

If leaving the bra on gives you more confidence and makes sex more enjoyable to you... then that’s what you should do. I think that With the right partner you Might be able to move past that. Once you understood that he doesn’t care about things like that and he just wants you. But for now, you should do whatever makes you happy!!

wingattebaby16 · Accepted Answer

so how are your boobs messed up? deformed? Accident?, failed plastic surgery?

most men don't care what your boobs look like during sex. They just want to touch, caress, and suck on them from my experience.. and I had A cup boobs most my life.

Any time I wore a bra for sex, he would insist on taking it off...

pleasestopthis · Accepted Answer

You should do what's most comfortable for you. If you ever trust a guy enough to show him your breasts then go ahead. If being without bra will make you shy or uncomfortable then it's better if you wear it, not for him but for your own peace.

laraWM · Answer

If you're more confident with your bra, then you can just keep it. There is no written rule, just act the way you feel comfortable

AustinMan · Answer

Men aren't that sensitive to how boobs look when they're about to get laid. Someday, you can talk to a good plastic surgeon and figure out what you want.

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

I don't have good boobs I still go bra-less

RainInOsaka · Answer

Awh I'm sorry you feel that way. I'm sure you have pretty breasts and you should not wear them. But if you really feel that self conscious then leave them on, but I don't think you have to do that though I think most guys don't care much

BarryMcKohkner · Answer

All breasts are amazing. Anyone who says otherwise doesn't know what they are talking about. I love em all

JackSmy · Answer

"Aren't Nice at all"? HOW? Send pictures (no face) as I don't understand!!

Apple1996 · Answer

Guys dont care if the boobs are ugly. They still want to see them

ssongsongie · Answer

You should do whatever makes you feel comfortable!

ShedZJ001 · Answer

Just get comfortable

Tobi_Lerone · Answer

No bra! Boobs are boobs for me^^ and I wanna enjoy that both don't wear anything :)

Dargil · Answer

The intimacy will far outweigh the aesthetics.

HeresJames1 · Answer

While leaving a bra on or half your clothes on can be hot in the "we just couldnt wait anymore" sense; when we are having sex i want her totally nude. I dont care if she's self concious because to me she's sexy as hell and i want to see and feel all of her (and my kinkier side is thinking, hell in this moment iwant to show the whole world just how hot she is)

Samantha_17 · Answer

I like being fully naked during sex. More hygienic too.

RosePrincess · Answer

Learn to accept yourself the way you are and don’t be ashamed of your body. I used to be very self curious about mine because they’re small and even being pregnant and start breast feeding didn't change them at all so what else can i do? Being sad or ashamed of them won’t change the size or shape so better accept it and move on! Now I really don’t care and I liked them the minute I stopped comparing myself to the others girls.