Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it fine if I let my boyfriend sleep with other women since I’m a virgin?
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He’s older than me (4 years). More experienced. We recently started dating, things are still kinda awkward. Should I break up w him or is it okay to let him be w other women. I know that at his age sex is important.
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9 48That's up to you.
Only if you want the relationship to fall apart in time.. or become incredibly unique or weird.. he won't want to give it up once he starts.. his brain will be trained to expect to get away with it..
Him being with another gal is NOT going to make things any LESS awkward, and will likely confuse the issue even more.
How about you have sex with him. If you don't want to, that's fine you don't have to, but he's not really your boyfriend. He's a friend.
No it isn’t.
Thank you!
If you are okay with it then it is fine. Just make sure he knows it is only booty calls and his heart he gives to only you.
Yeah, thank you. I appreciate your response!
No problem. I have studied this topic all my life and my knowledge is best served to help others.
Totally weird I think, I would never ever allow it.
The question is, are you really ok with that? And which is more important to him, the sex or you?
If you are on board with an open relationship, good for you guys. If you are not, then I would recommend not trying to force it.
Girl... Have some self-respect. He wants to date you and yet fuck other women at the same time? No. Don't let him do that. Dump his ass.
No 🤪. Either you be his girlfriend or you don't. What is the point of not having sex with your boyfriend?
No its not fine, and don't expect him to stop screwing other girls if he ever takes your virginity.
It's fine if you're an enabler (the male version is "cuck"). The trouble with that is that you may soon be in the market again for a boyfriend.
Why dont *you* have sex with him?
We only started dating days ago & I feel like I’m not ready to break my virginity
Ok. I wouldn't let him go with other girls... cuz eventually you'll do it with him.
Ooooooo yeah.
Good idea.
Very generous, too. !
:)
If you are comfortable with a polysexual relationship. But you should both talk about it and you should think about it on your own as well.
If you aren't comfortable or interested in that kind of relationship and he insists then you're not going to work out, as you just want different things.
Hell no!! What are you crazy?
Lmao.
Just give it a few months, see how you like him.
(of you being exclusive)
You are, by far, the most understanding girlfriend ever!
😂 lmao I love this reply
If you are serious about being with him (which it sounds like you're not too sure) you don't have to share him. You can be ok with it, but you shouldn't feel pressured to
Yeah you’re right about me not being sure. I don’t even think I’m ready for a relationship. I just didn’t want to turn him down.
I know how selfish that sounds but I’ll let him know what’s on my mind because he wants to meet up.
Good for your! Be honest and especially honest with yourself about your feelings. You are a good person!
Do you care if he has sex with others. Also he doesn't need sex.
I don’t want to deprive him of sex tho. 😂
He doesn't need it though. Sex just feels good, so people like it.