Is it important to be virgin to get married?

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My friend asking me

Losalt · Accepted Answer

That depends on culture.
In Scandinavia and left wing cities in the US etc it's not at all.
In certain conservative nations and republican states, and especially certain religious communities it very much is.
Staying a virgin probably still increases your options more then having a lot of sexual experience does.
Both have their advantages though.
And you might lose out on some great guys by insisting too hard on staying a virgin.

Personally I suggest not thinking too much about it and instead focusing on finding guys you *genuinely* can trust for your first time.
Don't make it a one night stand thing.
It's going to take a while anyway, so hopefully you'll find a good boyfriend/potential husband by then.

integrale77 · Accepted Answer

No it's an old very dated religious value.

Remember even if your not a virgin then there will still be a first time with any new people.

And body count is also a dated concept if the equipment down there does what it needs to then all is good.

KittyTwoLick · Accepted Answer

I woul say no for me, but that's a cultural thing. For others, virinity until marriage is for somereason the biggest thing in the world.. Meanwhile I say if you're going to commit to the Bull for life you might as well sample his Man milk first so you know you won't have buyers remore! Besiedes what about home owners insuraance

Emilyis · Accepted Answer

NO but I was a virgin on my wedding night and I was 21, From our wedding memories, There was no doubt that it was his first time too. Our wedding night was a disaster, the second night we basically played show and tell and the Third night, WOW! We had it figured out.

Red_Arrow · Answer

No, it is not important, at least in western culture. Other places it is.

ushagomez · Answer

Not at all.

Berethor · Answer

Yea, sluts are not wife material.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Absolutely not, infact I would never marry a virgin, I'm not interested in an inexperienced wife. Also I need to know if we are sexually compatible before committing to marriage, not that I'm ever going to get married again anyway.

slatyb · Answer

No, it's not. Most people marrying have had sex.

SixFootSexy · Answer

Definitely doesn't hurt. 95% of men would prefer young, attractive virgins if they could for a wife. If most women aren't giving them that option, it makes you instantly more desirable than them. This is why women encourage other women to sleep around, it lowers their marriage value. Women are much more catty about how they compete with other women; for men especially.

Dargil · Answer

In some cultures, it is. In more, just be low mileage.

oldguystillhasit · Answer

No it is not important. What is important is that you are loyal to each other

EyeKnowMeNahYou · Answer

It is important if it matters to you whether it is important to everybody else is not important at all, you have your own moral compass

Liz95 · Answer

I guess it depends on how big they’re with their religion…some people wait till marriage because of it

Reaper1985 · Answer

some studies have shown that the more sexual partners a person has had in the past. the tougher it will be for them to pair bond in the future. because on a subconscious level people have been known to compare past and preset encounters. so while people don't have to be a virgin to get married. having a lower partner count can somewhat help them for long term bonding.

genericname85 · Answer

i personally think it's stupid to be virgin and get married.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Not really. But not having a high number probably helps.

litty · Answer

No. The idea is nice that they would be your first, but many marriages also end because one is more interested in sex than the other, leading to sexual incompatibility, a dead bedroom marriage, and a lot of paperwork if not dealt with.