Is it normal for a guy not to text back after a one night stand?

A few nights ago I had a one night stand with a guy my friend and I met that night. I texted him the next day asking if I could come over to pick up my necklace that I left at his place. He didn’t respond to me but he read the text. My friend and I also followed him on Instagram the same day but he only followed her back. Why would he not respond to me or follow me back?
Is it normal for guys not to text back after a one night stand?
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  • Some guys do that unfortunately. Id try to get your necklace back If you can but forget about him.

    • you are wrong

  • I think it's normal for people to not text back, since that's usually the point of one night stands I think

  • Thats why its called a one night stand. You were pretty much used. Sending your friend would be your best bet. And chances are he's probably gonna try and get in your friends pants too. Cuz he seems to be a piece of shit.

  • Yes. Thats why its called a one night stand.

  • I think it depends how long you guys talk before actually getting to hook up and if it was online or not, if he liked having sex with you or not, and if it was planed or not all these play into the odds of the guy actually texting back If I had more details I would probably be closer

  • He already fucked you. Got what he wanted. So he is not texting back. But now he is going after your friend to fuck because he has not done her yet.

  • Some guys are like that. Guessing he doesn't want to see you again?

  • It is normal. if you hook up with a guy and you hear back from him whether that's him texting you first or you texting him first and he responds, he's down to keep hooking up or possibly even down for a relationship

    if you don't hear from him, well he's not down to keep hooking up and he's not down for a relationship lol It's just how some guys roll. They just wanted to hook up one time and that's it. Some girls are like that as well

  • Yes it’s very normal. Lol it throws you off if your not used to it like dam I thought we had a good time. But no lol it’s not just you it happens to all of us at some point.

  • Yes, he normally just wants sex and then leaves

    • I like your profile pic lol , its fappable

    • If there is something more than lust that night, like if he respects her character, he will want more. If she's not impressive in his eyes, he will just see her as a sex object.

  • considering it's a one night stand... yes it's ugh pretty normal to do that... cause its a one night stand... something you do one time only with that person.

  • After a one night stand I don't reply if the guy messages me the next day. That said, if they had left something at mine I would definitely reply and find a way to get it back to them, but that would be the only time I would reply

  • Everyone's different and it depends on whether you clarified it was just a one night stand. Was the sex satisfying? Was there any negative or uncomfortable exchange between you? Were either of you overly intoxicated on alcohol or street drugs (He may have been to high to remember you, feel embarrassed or even shy when sober)?

  • Is the necklace worth money? If he doesn't want anything to do with you he's going to avoid you.

  • You’ll need to ask your friend to connect regarding your necklace. Unfortunately, he may feel the ONS was a mistake so he’s trying to erase that it ever happened.

  • He got what he wanted. No more follow ups. It's one night only.

  • Yes it's a one night stand

  • Yes pretty much and thats fine by me if thats all it was.. Just remember not to leave anything at his/her place

  • Yeah, it's called being used for sex.

  • Text him with a message saying, Hey, I'm not looking to make a thing of a quick hit wonder, I just want my property back.

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