Is it normal for a married woman to dream about a threesome or even more?

[kinkynicci]

I'm married and really want to relive an experience I had when I was younger and sleep with at least 3 guys at once. Should I ask my hubby?

[Anonymous]

It’s not abnormal. The question is what will it do to the relationship.

For example, my hubby wants to have a threesome and I do not want to. AT ALL. I have told him time and again I don’t want to watch him have sex with someone else and that if he wants to have sex with others that badly, we either get divorced or we workout an open relationship where we each have our separate interactions per agreement. But I can’t watch it. He wants to do it together but I can’t. It would break me. I just know that about myself.

honestly, his “jokes” about threesomes have done a lot of damage to our relationship, more because I said they bother me and he keeps joking about it. That’s maybe a bigger issue than whether he has a fantasy that I can’t fulfill. I guess my point is to look at whether you think your hubby will be concerned about his ability to satisfy you as a result of the fantasy and if he agrees, can he really handle it. You are in a better position to know that than we are.

[rebeliouse]

would u be ok in an open relationship do u want to be fucked by other guys?

[Opinion Owner]

@rebeliouse not really. I mean, everybody has people they are attracted to, but I only want to be with one person. Now, if DH said he HAD to be with other people, it would either be divorce or I’d step out as much as he does. But that second would probably just be a “slow divorce” ...

[CuriousKurd]

Have you said to him you'll only consider it if you're allowed try men?

[Opinion Owner]

@CuriousKurd I told him everything I said here. He said he wants to share the experience with me. So we maintain unfulfilled monogamy, where he has a fantasy he can’t fulfill and now I feel insecure in the relationship. It’s not a good outcome and it has resulted in me withdrawing from him quite a bit.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

BIASED MHO

[katiesmuff]

I think most married women and men for that matter think or dream of stuff quite out of the ordinary. Hard to tell how many actually fulfill those thoughts though.
Your husband will be one extraordinary man if he goes along with letting three other guys fuck you for a night.

[HelenJacob]

Normally we do. And we are married

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

BIASED MHO

[ohshee]

In my teens 20s and 30 it was one of my go to fantasies and then one night it happened to be quite honest it was okay but my fantasies were better I also learned that I'm a one-woman man. It seemed like every time I would just start getting into it with one woman you're the one with pull me off. And then I would have to start with her and then the other one would pull me off right at the wrong times. The next days I left about it it said if I ever did it again it would be to please one of these girls and it would be two guys and one of those girls just to keep the focus all on her I like to be the one that pleases so it's kind of hard for me to get into it with each one pulling on you. If he's into that kind of stuff yes go for it but you also need somebody there for him

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

BIASED MHO

[Red_Arrow]

Normal as in most married women dram about that? No, most are not interested in that. But it is normal in that many women do think about that or something like that. You can ask your husband and he may go along with it, depending on how your relationship has developed, but on the other hand, he may want to leave you for that.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

BIASED MHO

[Red_Arrow]

I am curious how this turned out. Did you ask him and did you go through with it? How did it turn out?

[Daniela1982]

Threesomes seems to be a hot topic this month, and last, and the one before that. I figured with the amount of times this question has been asked people would get tired of it and concentrate on other questions now.

[Daniela1982]

Well some downvoter likes to be reemed by two dicks at once.

[loves2learn]

Be open and honest with your husband.

[DaisyM23]

I mean sure

[Gagname]

It depends on a few things...

1. How long have you been married?

2. What are you guys into sexually nowadays? all vanilla stuff or some kinky things too?

3. Have you ever watched three (or more) some porn with your husband and/or discussed being w others in a three or more some? and dud your husband seem like he was ok w that happening?

4. What is your current “relationship agreement” (understanding) w your husband regarding the maximum level of interactions w others that is currently ok? online flirting, in-person flirting, kissing, romantic/sexual touching, oral sex, or full sex?

[Leavesbound]

I don't know how your hubby will react. If it was me I would not object to my wife doing something like that to fulfill a fantasy as long as I am a participant. But some guys are irrationally jealous and would not react well.

[lexiflexs]

“Irrationally”

[Loveydove]

Ummm you need to really think about your desires and know it’s not fair to your husband

[slatyb]

Sexual fantasies are completely normal. Ask him. It's not much of a relationship if you can't talk about sex.

by the way you look great.

[Chillguy95]

Yes and I’ll be your third lol

[wankiam]

i think most do.. you look sexy as hell by the way

[Paige90]

I have slept with two guys at the same time and think about doing five or six at the same time. If I ever find the right guys and I am in that mood I will do it!

[Gagname]

You’ve done 2 guys at the same time, what makes you want to more than double the amount of guys?…was the experience so amazing for you because you loved being desired by multiple me, or does having sex w multiple guys give you a naughty/slutty (in a good way) feeling that you love?

[kinkynicci]

Paige90 that is pretty much how I feel as well. I have been with my husband and another guy more than a few times. I just want the experience of more men at once. I think 5 or 6 would be good. I'm leaning towards 6 though because I don't want to look back and wish I would have done more if that makes sense

[Gagname]

@kinkynicci, you want 5 or 6 guys too—while married—wow. I responded w an opinion on this question…Did you speak to your husband about wanting to sleep with at least 3 guys?

[rebeliouse]

@kinkynicci so u have done mfm with husband? if he is down with that then whats stopping you been gangbanged with him there? have u done fmf for his pleasure?

[Paige90]

I am open to more than two guys but it will probably never happen as it would have to be with guys I will never see again not to mention they have to be good-looking!

[Gagname]

@paige90 Yeah would definitely difficult to find guys like that… Why do they have to be “never see again’s”? And what makes you want to be w more than 2 guys at a time?…is it the“being desired” feeling, or “naughty/slutty” (in a good way) feeling that you like so much?

[rebeliouse]

@paige90 can you not go on hol somewhere and find 6 guys there so won't see um again?

[rebeliouse]

@kinkynicci whats stopping you from going ahead with 6 or more guys?

[kkirk4442]

Just don't be surprised if he wants to sleep with three girls at once, of if he simply says I'm out of the relationship entirely.

[boggboss]

All u can do us ask him otherwise it would be cheating

[jshm2]

That's called "being a swinger" deary.

[DJB72]

Unless you're wanting him to be your ex-hubby you may want to find a way to leave the past in the past. If he wanted to marry you it's unlikely he'll want to share you afterwards.

[buddysboy16]

Never hurts to ask!

[Stevepro68]

As long as your OK with it and so is he and you agree to rules that you follow. Understand that this also opens the doors to his sexual fantasies.

[Miristheiss]

Pretty gross.

There is a good chance you are about to ruin your marriage. The chances if him having favorable feelings toward you after revealing this are low. Not many men would be up for this... nor are they willing to sexually share their wife with 2/3 other men.

[LiamSawyer]

I'm not sure how well I'd share you with t2 other guys but I'd love to bang your very hot and sexy 41 year old body.

[kendall968]

yes! go for it girl

[Azura_88]

Just being "married" doesn't mean that you're automatically purified, will be loyal till death or sexual thoughts of hot strangers will vanish forever.
Marriage is just a label but it can't change your personality. People are what they are.
This is why sex should be banned before marriage.
There are more divorce rates because people are used to the idea of only pleasure but not love since their teenage.