Is it normal for guys to flaunt their dick size?

Question

Okay it could totally be an immaturity thing but my boyfriend sometimes makes remarks that emphasize his large dick size. I am not a troll and this is a relevant question I am asking. I love him to death but sometimes I hope my boyfriend isn’t egotistical because he is serious when he says some of these things:
”My dick size would make other guys feel bad” “You’d be disappointed by other men’s dick sizes”
“I got a big dick!”

Dont get me wrong, he does have a big dick but he kinda puts other guys sizes down to make his size stand out. He’s 20, should I think that this is a valid problem? Do 20 year olds have this mindset? If yes, how do I maturely confront him about it next time he says another remark? Don’t ask for his dick size by the way :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I tend to think if it's not pure immaturity, which I don't think it is in this case because not only age, but that you are already a couple (generally guys do this before that), then it's deep routed insecurities he has. Like maybe he's afraid you're going to leave him or something? How to handle this exactly? Maybe next time say something like "Has a girl left you because of your penis size? I'm curious because I don't understand why you tell me this?" Maybe this has happened? Maybe an ex told him this for "revenge" or to hurt him? I say it's definitely some kind of deep routed insecurity of his, but getting him to see it or figuring it out might be difficult. Especially if he doesn't want to look at it.

summiter · Accepted Answer

He just wants to brag and actually may be insecure. Just tell him that you are happy with what he has and you enjoy sex with him but he does not need to elaborate on his dick size. How is your sex life with him anyway?

by the way it is not normal for guys to talk about their dick size... who really cares anyway?

Angel_ika · Accepted Answer

Yes guys like to talk about their dicks and guys with big dicks love to tell you how much bigger they are

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

Regrettably it sounds like your boyfriend is a self conceited, egotistical individual... Sorry.

The_Maphio · Answer

When they are about your age it is pretty normal. Whoever goes beyond the age of 30 and is still worried about such a dumb thing is usually an incel, or a very superficial dude.

Bricealan · Answer

What's his dick size?

genericname85 · Answer

well would you like to be with a man that belittles his penis and doesn't like his physical appearance in that regard? probably not.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

You showcase what you have, lol if you had big boobs you would definetly flaunt it

vald9inches · Answer

I am kinda guilty of this lol just tell him to tone it down and that girls find it a turn off to brag so much

Trooper205 · Answer

Honestly, it normally is. Now, some Men do it because it's something to boast about it, and be a jerk... While other Men do it because It's all they're proud of! It's as if their Masculinity and Manhood is hanging by a single thread, hanging on for dear life, simply for the length of their Penis... It's kinda sad!