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Is it normal for guys to flaunt their dick size?

Okay it could totally be an immaturity thing but my boyfriend sometimes makes remarks that emphasize his large dick size. I am not a troll and this is a relevant question I am asking. I love him to death but sometimes I hope my boyfriend isn’t egotistical because he is serious when he says some of these things:
”My dick size would make other guys feel bad” “You’d be disappointed by other men’s dick sizes”
“I got a big dick!”

Dont get me wrong, he does have a big dick but he kinda puts other guys sizes down to make his size stand out. He’s 20, should I think that this is a valid problem? Do 20 year olds have this mindset? If yes, how do I maturely confront him about it next time he says another remark? Don’t ask for his dick size by the way :)
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  • I tend to think if it's not pure immaturity, which I don't think it is in this case because not only age, but that you are already a couple (generally guys do this before that), then it's deep routed insecurities he has. Like maybe he's afraid you're going to leave him or something? How to handle this exactly? Maybe next time say something like "Has a girl left you because of your penis size? I'm curious because I don't understand why you tell me this?" Maybe this has happened? Maybe an ex told him this for "revenge" or to hurt him? I say it's definitely some kind of deep routed insecurity of his, but getting him to see it or figuring it out might be difficult. Especially if he doesn't want to look at it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • He just wants to brag and actually may be insecure. Just tell him that you are happy with what he has and you enjoy sex with him but he does not need to elaborate on his dick size. How is your sex life with him anyway?

    by the way it is not normal for guys to talk about their dick size... who really cares anyway?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes guys like to talk about their dicks and guys with big dicks love to tell you how much bigger they are

    • guys with small dicks love saying they're big too

    • i'm pretty sure guys with bigger dicks feel more manly then other guys... and they want other guys to know they are bigger.. they also think it will get them more pussy... of course this could all stem from the fact guys have been told size matters and bigger is better..

  • Regrettably it sounds like your boyfriend is a self conceited, egotistical individual... Sorry.

    • Thank you for the MHGirl.

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  • By any chance did you mention his large size to him when you first starting hooking up? I had a boyfriend that made the same kind of comments all the time and I found out later it was because I had said how big he was when we first had sex. He took that as a sign that I liked his "bigness", so he kept bringing it up as a turn on. TBH, for awhile, it did kind of turn me on, but then he did it a couple of times around our friends, and it was pretty embarrassing, especially when one of my friends asked me about it later.

  • When they are about your age it is pretty normal. Whoever goes beyond the age of 30 and is still worried about such a dumb thing is usually an incel, or a very superficial dude.

  • What's his dick size?

  • well would you like to be with a man that belittles his penis and doesn't like his physical appearance in that regard? probably not.

  • You showcase what you have, lol if you had big boobs you would definetly flaunt it

  • I am kinda guilty of this lol just tell him to tone it down and that girls find it a turn off to brag so much

  • Honestly, it normally is. Now, some Men do it because it's something to boast about it, and be a jerk... While other Men do it because It's all they're proud of! It's as if their Masculinity and Manhood is hanging by a single thread, hanging on for dear life, simply for the length of their Penis... It's kinda sad!

  • Cringe

  • just tell him you have seen bigger... Not that you have had bigger but that you have seen bigger. ;)

  • No...

  • Bragging about genetic qualities you didn't earn, like height/cocksize/breast size/beauty etc. Is a sign of low self-worth/confidence.

  • Yes we it gives us a big confident boast

  • He's just asserting dominance

  • He is underrating other guys 😂😂😂

  • always is normal

  • You can make sex with another man and tell him I had bigger and nicer dick ☺️

    • Fuck no.

    • Why you act like that ☺️

  • Yep. I saw many such stupids In my hostel

  • Well if he has a big dock then it's understandable, take me for example I have a tiny dick and I never flaunt about it, and you know why😂

  • I ll not ask the dick size i know my is small but one day will come when girls would be crazy about my dick

  • Not everyone is the same but I always did enjoy to flaunt my size from a young age. There is a time and a place and I wouldn't make a point of putting others down if they were just going about their business. I only really discussed it and made commnets with women if they enjoyed to know about it and the reactions of others.

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