Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it normal for my boyfriend to watch porn every day?
Xxstacy Xper 3
I’d ask him, but every time I even bring it up he gets mad. He tells me to drop it and leave it alone. He’s my first boyfriend of 3 years and I just found out like 5 months ago by trying to delete my search history from his computer so he wouldn’t find out what I was getting him for his birthday and I found all his porn I mean I was surprised and I just want to hear other people’s opinions on it just because I don’t really have anyone else to talk to. I am jealous about it just because he watches everyday and hardly ever gives me attention or affection and I do get mad and I don’t know if that’s normal or not. I just want to hear everyone out.
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6 49Its normal almost everyone does it
No. Seems a bit odd.
Yes, it's normal.
He asks you to drop it and leave him alone because it's natural male visual fantasy and women have this constant need to shame and question it. If he did it to you and your fantasy, you would not only have trouble stopping mental fantasy (because it's impossible) you would start to find it frustrating and annoying that he keeps bringing it up and making an issue of it.
Yeah it's normal but he shouldn't be addicted
Hence the reason why the pron industry is growing so fast!
For some guys it a routine thats hard to break. He is obviously uncomfortable with the subject
Porn is not
Porn is not a problem unless he prefers watching porn over sex.
Yes it’s normal guys from 18-30 have really high testosterone.
Porn is a really hard addiction to break. Society says it's normal but it's a terrible addiction. You feeling neglected is one of the side effects for sure (there are many, it rewires the brain). I was addicted for YEARS. I don't any more and I don't masturbate. (nor do I hook up with my GF) I am not saying that I am better nor a standard in any way. But I am against porn and feel for you..
You need to give it up more often. Get creative or suck his dick, pretty much get him tired of sex, if that's even possible.
Marry me
Lol🤣
Normal to watch, yes. Why he’s not giving you attention though is a bigger question I’d have? Is your sex bland or vanilla? Are there things he wants but doesn’t get? Since he doesn’t know you know he watches, why don’t you buy a nice romance couples porn, and surprise him and incorporate into one of your sessions? My wife and I like to watch tasteful porn in bed just for fun. See where things go. Explore. Introduce toys and fun things too like bed restraints and use good smelling oils and lubes, play sex games, use sex coupons, lingerie, etc. But I think you need to talk about it too like over dinner.
Listen up OP. This is the real deal. I was in a 5 year relationship and I started to watch porn 3/4 through the relationship because our sex life was fuckey.
Porn does ruin lives and relationships and marriage. Porn can be used creatively too. The problem is when is it more important than your s/o though? Bored of the relationship? Not getting it enough? The spark or love is not there anymore? That’s where somebody needs to find that out. I’ve been with my wife for 15 years and we still have a great, fun, open sex life. We love to keep things hot and spicy. We openly watch couples romance porn together too. Sometimes we masturbate to it when we can’t get it, or the other isn’t there, or the other is not in the mood? That happens. But it doesn’t mess out relationship at all.