Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it normal that my boyfriend got soft during this time?
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He was originally hard and then I started looking for something naked with the light on (it’s the first time he sees me naked with the light/flashlight on) and I he was looking at me jerking off but then his dick was soft and then when I asked him if he wanted to continue having sex (go for a second round) he said no that it’s fine and that’s the first time that he’s said that. I got really sad and I cried I probably overreacted but I felt very unattractive I felt disgusting even and I was crying so much. Sex also sucked today it hurt so bad the whole time. I’ve also been feeling very down and sad in general. I was looking forward to today because it was one of the only times that I saw him in the week (I only see him twice a week) but it just ended up being another sad day for me
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I wish I could be able to enjoy sex too. Also I felt disgusting because I don’t know what kind of guy would get soft when his girlfriend is naked in front of him that made me feel like I was unattractive to him
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I already do that
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8 20Why do women always assume it them
I think it is normal but if you want to get him hard just stroke his dick.
Maybe more foreplay will help and relax
To be honest I would give a similar reaction if I saw a girl naked for the first time
Maybe he have to suck
I was thinking it's because he jacked off and cummed, but based on your description, that doesn't seem to be the case. I think you just killed the mood. As another user mentioned, just because you're naked that doesn't necessarily mean the situation has to be sexual. Same reason dudes never get boners on nude beaches or those nude dating shows. It probably hurted 'cuz you weren't wet because he made you feel self conscious. But it sounds like he's never actually seen you naked until now.
He has seen me naked everytime but he doesn’t have a lot of light in his room but it’s enough to see my body and shape and everything and for him to go down on me too. We’ve just never done it in a bright light but I sent him a picture or two of me naked in a bright light
And... how did he react? You've never showered together?
He went crazy lol
No unfortunately we don’t have any privacy outside of his room
We both still live with our parents
So what are you worried about? Damn, that sucks. lol
I just that day took it offensively and thought it was because I wasn’t attractive to him but I think it’s because he already came and it was hard for him to stay up after is that normal in guys that are in their early 20s?
That's what I think. I think it's because he cummed. But I don't know why he jacked off. Maybe he cummed accidently, in which case you should take it as a compliment. Normally yes. It kind of depends. Sometimes if I haven't cum in a few days, I can get hard again and cum like 3 or 4 times. But then sometimes after the first I can't take anymore. And I have a really high sex drive. But as to not confuse you further, I'll just say NO.
Sorry, I meant YES rather
How long have you and him been together now? Do you use the birth control pill?