Is it normal to have sex completely naked?

I've only had sex with one person, who was my boyfriend that I was comfortable around. After the breakup, I tried being "that girl" and got with another guy, with the intentions of hooking up.

My ex boyfriend and I used to always have sex completely naked, but when I was with this guy, It seemed different. We were in his car, and he was kind of "working around my clothes." I. e he was sliding his hand down my pants and taking my boobs out of my bra, but he never actually took my clothes off! So I ended up taking my clothes off myself, right in front of him, and he looked so surprised. Like I saw the look on his face and yeah he seemed to enjoy it, but he also just looked so surprised he actually stopped what he was doing! 😬 So I was completely naked in his car, and he never really took any of his clothes off, he just whipped it out lol but never really took his clothes off...

Ladies, do you normally go completely naked when you do it? And guys?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • As choice of every guy differ Madam so as you were not comfortable with wearing clothes so he responded surprised because it is sign of submissive nature and show that the girl is having high sex drive.

    He might have thought that you are not able to control your feelings towards him. So at that time he stopped by shock what he might have seen.

    He enjoyed because it satisfy his male ego. in my opinion what I do doesn't matter.

    Hope it helps Madam.

  • Being completely naked is definitely the norm... but you usually also have a private place to have sex. In a car in public, it's not that unusual to keep most of your clothes on, so if someone approaches, you can cover up.

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  • It's normal but I try to avoid it. I lost over 100 lbs. and I have stretch marks on my stomach and saggy boobs as a result, both of which I'm self conscious about so I'm usually just naked from the waist down unless it's completely dark. Of course it doesn't help that a guy made a comment about my stretch marks when I was forced to show them.

  • I tend to prefer completely naked, but it would all depend on the people involved in the situation and how comfortable they are with being naked. I also do think that sometimes it's nice to switch it up with a partner and try things a little differently like leaving some clothes on.

  • It's because you were in a car. He probably was concerned about being caught or thought that it was intended to be a quick deal.

    I don't fuck in cars or in places like that though so 99.99% of the time I'm stark ass nude if I'm having sex.

  • Well, i think you usually keep some clothes on in the car, but I prefer sex in a bed or someplace comfortable and private where we can be naked.

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  • If you're going to do it in public like in a car I can see how you keep your clothes on for the convenience factor, but in the privacy of your home you get naked.

  • i'm usually completely naked when having sex

  • I don't think I've ever had sex wearing more than socks (don't judge- my feet were cold and my apartment was always drafty). I've only had sex in a car once though, and it was literally in the middle of nowhere so we didn't have to worry as much about being caught.

  • Oh yes, normally naked for us. It is the most natural, normal and comfortable.

  • I almost almost get completely naked. Mostly because my guy undressed me but I NEVER get completely naked in a car. Lol.

  • Usually you do get completely naked but when you're in the car is when you just kinda hitch your pants down and leave your shirt on etc. lol it's best to wear a dress or skirt for car sex.

    • @sweethomicidalqueen... I'm like you. I've gone both ways in the car too!

  • If we only have little time to do it like a quickie, we'd still have most of our clothes on. I prefer that we get completely naked like we usually do.

  • You were in his car... so he obviously didn't wanna completely strip cause it's less obvious that being naked. Obviously when you have sex at home you're completely naked.

    • I guess it would feel sexy being bottomless in the car? :D

  • in my experience most women like to be totally naked which is a shame

  • I'm pretty sure the surprise factor was because you guys were in a car. I think it's pretty normal for people to be completely nude during sex. Some people may leave certain articles of clothing on for different reasons, but the majority of people get naked.

  • Normally yes. The only times in not fully naked are when it's a quickie or when there's the danger of getting caught.

  • I wouldn't like to be naked in a car. In a bed, on the couch or in a tent I prefer naked.

    • Like completely naked? :D

    • @Dexamethasone Yes.

    • Okay cool :D And what about in the car, like bottomless? :D

  • I prefer being naked but in a car I've done it both ways depending on where we are and time of day.

    • @billiejean1070... I'm like you. I've gone both ways in the car too!

  • Yes, you are meant to be naked when you have sex.

  • Yes, I normally do it completely naked. Feels more comfortable and more intimate.

  • I'm almost always completely naked when I fuck

  • I'm not sure what you mean by "that girl" but if you're trying to hook up with guys to be "that girl"..."that girl" is seldom respected by guys.

    But as far as the question goes, if you're in a car and just whip it out, it's easier to put everything away and button up, in case a cop rolls by and notices fogged up windows. If you're completely naked, you're kinda screwed.

  • Cheap sex and good honest sex are really two different things. The latter requires some kind of emotional connection.
    I'm not saying 'don't do it in a car', just that it should be an adjunct or side-dish, not the main course.

  • Completely naked ftw

  • Yes, naked as in nature. I used to be very prude, but you simply get accustomed to it. The outcome is simply too appealing :P

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