Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Last night I woke up to my boyfriend going at it with me, which sounds kind of ridiculous but I’m an incredibly deep sleeper. I told him to stop a few times and tried to push him off, but he acted like he couldn’t hear me and kept going, so I just let him finish.
I asked him why he did it this morning, and he apologized and said he was drunk and didn’t know what he was doing, but that couples in a sexual relationship do it all the time.
I’m sorry if this is a stupid question, but this is my first relationship and sexual partner. He's a lot more experienced than I am, so I'm inclined to trust him, but I just feel kinda weird about the whole situation.
Is it normal to have sex with a sleeping partner?
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13 20I think it is weird personally
That's considered rape
Basically you told he is your boyfriend. So it means you intimate whenever you want. And i hope you might have intimated frequently. The sad part you said that he was fucking you I'm sleep which is very common in today's world. Most of people love intimating in sleep. Personally I do. I don't feel you should worry about it if you have already intimated before. Rest you can decide what you want to do.
He literally just raped you but I guess that's just the consequences of you sleeping with him and not setting boundaries
He was still wrong to do that (and I would personally probably break up with her for not requesting consent) but you did make it convenient for that to go down so
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Right, so he should go to prison for 20 years, be put permanently on the sex offender registry, and essentially be destroyed. Modern women are truly the most dangerous species on the planet.
Then don't just randomly bang her while you're sleep because you feel like it
What if you woke up and your roommate acted like a gay mafa and was drilling you without consent?
COMPLETELY different situation. If you are not in an intimate relationship with someone they should not be fucking your ass. If you are BF/GF sleeping in the same bed, I think consent should be implied.
You still ask.
That's fair but I don't think her boyfriend should be liable for a rape conviction and all that follows. Also, I think the law should say that when a woman marries a man, consent is implied. There shouldn't be such a thing as "marital rape".
I'd still ask my future wife after we're married for 5 years to ensure that it's invites whoever wouldn't do that is a jerk buttwipe
If it's not invited or if you had a fight of course there should... what do you think marriage is a way for you to own a human being therefore erasing all their rights?
I don't think a women should be able to accuse her husband of "rape" whenever she feels like it. Just what does a man get out of marriage anyway? You tell me.
I don't know what non christian folks get out of it but to us it's a fun equal partnership and lasting company between to people who love and take care of each other. secular marriage is like "this is my hoe and I'ma give her the d whenever I get ready" "let me check his Instagram and see if he's cheating" or some kind of get rich quick scheme.
You are 20, correct?
Yeah why?
That's what rape is
No, that's basically rape since you can't give your consent.
The worst is you told him to stop and he didn't. This is definitely tape.
Yes I have had girlfriend in the pat tell me to do it. I can make a girl cum in her sleep without waking up I have also got one to sleep masturbate. It was sexy as fuck.
... You know he basically raped you right? You told him to stop, he didn't stop. And no, that's not common... At the least it's something that should be discussed about beforehand.
Why do I not believe this