Why not, I spent a lot of my academic time studying history, and what history has taught us is woman's sexuality has been held against them, so why not in todays society should they not use it to get ahead.
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jasnw0545Xper 2
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Playfully flirt dress sexy on purpose shake a little more when they walk by I think so... actually do anything physical no.. may as well save time and just get money for it
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chriscdiMaster
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its not okay but im sure if everyone could, everyone would so if you have an opportunity to do so and you wanted to take it then free will but dont expect to not get any judgment cause its something you can't get away from
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winterfox10Master
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I think it's okay... I don't understand why so many people have a problem with it. If you've got the goods, then why not?
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WowwGirl
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What I'm saying
winterfox10
+1 y
That's easy to say when you have the goods 😉
WowwGirl
+1 y
It took time
MannMitAntwortenGuru
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That is for them to figure out. But it leaves me wondering whether this behavior really gets them as far as they would without falling to this versus not and whether it only hurts women at large as then it just becomes expected of women when seeking to advance.
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JC103Guru
+1 y
I think it’s ok
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MakeushiverYoda
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I think it's fair to use any advantage you have, Since you are hot, play that card. Make sure that whomever is responsib le for doing hiring also knows you have the skills to do the job. As far as using looks to get some head- sorry ahead in other life areas like relationships being attractive and sexy is always an advantage
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R3DthatDudeYoda
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Depends on the industry you apply it to. Some will cause that to backfire later on.
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worldscolideMaster
+1 y
Its ok as long as they understand the stigma behind it. The words "She fucked her way to the top" come to mind. Which means she is where she is because of sex, not skill and merit.. One i respect, one i do not.
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WowwGirl
+1 y
😂😂😂
WowwGirl
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I like the word merit
es20490446eMaster
+1 y
For getting a partner, yes. For everything else, no.
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douride2Master
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Nope not a chance. I won't kiss ass suck up or bow down to anyone to get a job or a promotion. I got where I am today with a lot of hard work & nothing else.
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genericname85Master
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sure. if you can get away with it, good for you.
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WowwGirl
+1 y
Your answer surprised me
genericname85
+1 y
why? guys do that too. use their physical size to assert dominance in the professional world all the time.
WowwGirl
+1 y
Because You are usually mean to me in your answers and this answer was not. It was nice or rational anyway very good
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genericname85
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i'm not trying to be mean. i'm trying to be realistic and i say my honest opinion. i don't have any malevolent intentions.
WowwGirl
+1 y
Good to know
genericname85
+1 y
i think what may have given you a negative vibe is simply the fact that we have different taste in art :D nothing personal at all.
WowwGirl
+1 y
Fair enough
hellacrayGuru
+1 y
Oh you mean like sleeping with the boss to get a promotion?
First off I think that sort of thing is illegal unless you're making a porno. And second of all I think that sort of thing is really going to set women back a couple of years.
Cause we've all heard the stereotype that women in higher positions only got there because she slept with the boss not because she's actually good at her job.
It's things like these that make women not be taken seriously. If you want to get ahead by being a sex object rather than being competent at your job. Well go ahead and try let's see what happens.
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PupinTheTurdXper 3
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Is it okay for men to see women as sex objects?
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AllThatSweetJazzGuru
+1 y
Well, they’re going to, so it seems like a pointless question to ask myself. Better to skip to how to deal with it.
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wondering_guyExplorer
+1 y
It doesn't matter if its okay or not, women still do it. Women use their flirty charm do make guy do what they want for them, use sex as a took to get free stuff or promotion.
I guess aslong as you do t piss anyone off with it then it's fine but be warned some guys can be liers and users, they may promise stuff they don't mean. Just saying, not all guys though
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Myk13Xper 7
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Wether it’s right or wrong somebody will do it. As competitive as things are today, she might as well. Everybody wants to show why it should be us. We put on our best suit, new shoes, get a haircut, new cologne. There will always be that one woman at a job interview wearing a little black cocktail dress. To even the playing field. At least with other women. I say go for it. Show some skin. Push them up and shove them in our faces.
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samerin11223344Xper 3
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It's your body. So it's your choice. Make it wisely and the way you fell better in future
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FatherJackGuru
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Would not say it's OK , but people have used , and continue to use worse methods go " get ahead " I believe in pure merit and suitability for leadership & higher paid positions. This type of woman will NEVER get true respect
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26 115Why not, I spent a lot of my academic time studying history, and what history has taught us is woman's sexuality has been held against them, so why not in todays society should they not use it to get ahead.
Playfully flirt dress sexy on purpose shake a little more when they walk by I think so... actually do anything physical no.. may as well save time and just get money for it
its not okay but im sure if everyone could, everyone would so if you have an opportunity to do so and you wanted to take it then free will but dont expect to not get any judgment cause its something you can't get away from
I think it's okay... I don't understand why so many people have a problem with it. If you've got the goods, then why not?
What I'm saying
That's easy to say when you have the goods 😉
It took time
That is for them to figure out. But it leaves me wondering whether this behavior really gets them as far as they would without falling to this versus not and whether it only hurts women at large as then it just becomes expected of women when seeking to advance.
I think it’s ok
I think it's fair to use any advantage you have, Since you are hot, play that card. Make sure that whomever is responsib le for doing hiring also knows you have the skills to do the job. As far as using looks to get some head- sorry ahead in other life areas like relationships being attractive and sexy is always an advantage
Depends on the industry you apply it to. Some will cause that to backfire later on.
Its ok as long as they understand the stigma behind it. The words "She fucked her way to the top" come to mind. Which means she is where she is because of sex, not skill and merit.. One i respect, one i do not.
😂😂😂
I like the word merit
For getting a partner, yes. For everything else, no.
Nope not a chance. I won't kiss ass suck up or bow down to anyone to get a job or a promotion. I got where I am today with a lot of hard work & nothing else.
sure. if you can get away with it, good for you.
Your answer surprised me
why? guys do that too. use their physical size to assert dominance in the professional world all the time.
Because You are usually mean to me in your answers and this answer was not. It was nice or rational anyway very good
i'm not trying to be mean. i'm trying to be realistic and i say my honest opinion. i don't have any malevolent intentions.
Good to know
i think what may have given you a negative vibe is simply the fact that we have different taste in art :D nothing personal at all.
Fair enough
Oh you mean like sleeping with the boss to get a promotion?
First off I think that sort of thing is illegal unless you're making a porno. And second of all I think that sort of thing is really going to set women back a couple of years.
Cause we've all heard the stereotype that women in higher positions only got there because she slept with the boss not because she's actually good at her job.
It's things like these that make women not be taken seriously. If you want to get ahead by being a sex object rather than being competent at your job. Well go ahead and try let's see what happens.
Is it okay for men to see women as sex objects?
Well, they’re going to, so it seems like a pointless question to ask myself. Better to skip to how to deal with it.
It doesn't matter if its okay or not, women still do it. Women use their flirty charm do make guy do what they want for them, use sex as a took to get free stuff or promotion.
I guess aslong as you do t piss anyone off with it then it's fine but be warned some guys can be liers and users, they may promise stuff they don't mean. Just saying, not all guys though
Wether it’s right or wrong somebody will do it. As competitive as things are today, she might as well. Everybody wants to show why it should be us. We put on our best suit, new shoes, get a haircut, new cologne. There will always be that one woman at a job interview wearing a little black cocktail dress. To even the playing field. At least with other women. I say go for it. Show some skin. Push them up and shove them in our faces.
It's your body. So it's your choice. Make it wisely and the way you fell better in future
Would not say it's OK , but people have used , and continue to use worse methods go " get ahead " I believe in pure merit and suitability for leadership & higher paid positions. This type of woman will NEVER get true respect
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