Is it painful to be fingered vaginally?

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[unluckyplant710]

My high school sweetheart and I kinda explored everything together and very young. I absolutely was so so so in love with her I was afraid to hurt her. The key for us was going slow and communication. I can tell you years later I was making her squirt so I'm fairly certain if the guy or girl knows what they're doing and you're not totally a virgin it will be painless. For the first time choose someone who is going to treat you well and put you before him. If you both trust eachother and use birth control there's not much that can go wrong. Does masturbating hurt? Except I do notice girls stimulate their clit more than anything and guys kinda go for the gspot. I divide my time lol

[MrOracle]

I obviously can't speak from direct personal experience, but given how enthusiastically my partners have been about being fingered, I wouldn't say that pain is a common problem. Of course, we're talking about non-virgins here - having an intact hymen could easily result in some pain when being fingered.

[Rfvgtyh]

No it wasn’t painful it was tight though because I have a naturally tight pussy but before I had sex it was even tighter. I love being fingered though it gets me so wet

[DeeDeeDeVour]

It shouldn't be painful unless he's rough or he's got these

gigantic fingers which might turn on to be very pleasurable.

[Daniela1982]

Not unless it is by Edward or Freddy.

[MissKittyz]

It is only painful if the guy has no idea what he is doing or has super long nails. But if he is doing it right, it feels extremely amazing. My fiancé is super good at it so it feels like heaven.

[thepirate18]

As far as I know max 3 fingers only should be put. Some try to put 4 and that leads to pain.

[SweedyPie]

Painful? No.
A man with skilled fingers can be compared to a skilled pianist/harpist/guitarist that knows how to make their instruments sing like angels. Lol

[BALLERINA297]

No not usually but I usually tell my fiancé to cut his nails if he’s going there.

[Moonchild714]

Fingers aren't that big to cause pain or even discomfort. If you're feeling pain there is something going on...

[Lauren-green]

It was only painful for me for the first time and when my partner at the time tried to put in an extra finger and it hurt me. Other than that, as long as you are turned on, it shouldn't be painful.

[xBree]

No lol

[Hello_people]

Cos you re always wet?

[xBree]

Technically yeah

[Hello_people]

So you are good for the man. Wet is best ;)

[xBree]

Lol it's annoying sometimes

[Hello_people]

It's not annoying for a man. Opposite it means comfort :)

[SarahsSummer]

In relation to what? It would depend on the other parts of your body you'd consider being fingered

[i1T2daty]

I make sure that either my partner is so turned on that she's soaked or use lube. If she is really turned on before you try approaching clit/vag. She will usually be able to handle the intensity of a finger vs. a tongue tip but in both cases friction can be way too much early on before she is fully aroused where the same or more pressure in the same place feels much better if she is aroused enough to handle it. Touch and timing are everything

[Hamsteroids]

It’s not painful but it’s not my favorite either lol I prefer oral

[WalterBlack]

If the woman has had sex before and she is aroused, fingering should not be painful. It is a good idea to start by rubbing the clit to get the juices flowing and relax the muscles around the vagina.

[krisnic28]

Just make sure you are well lubricated

[EmmaMary]

Personally I've never experienced any discomfort at all.

[Paige90]

It was never painful for me. I don't understand how it would be painful to anyone unless they were very dry and needed some lube.

[boredguy01]

Even for a virgin it shouldn't be painful at all if she's wet and the person fingering her has short nails and goes at a pace that's comfortable for her

[Harmseygrace]

Haha no. That's wrong.

[boredguy01]

@Harmseygrace I fingered my girlfriend multiple times when she was still a virgin and it was never painful for her so it's definitely possible

[Harmseygrace]

Yeah cause she had probably fingered herself before.

[GoldenChick101]

No it’s not painful unless somethings wrong

[red_knight]

I listed stuff in my opinion feel free to add on

[Teahappy]

It's the worse, and I hate when guys do it.

[Catscratch]

do you tell them you don't like it, or let them have at it? i Used to hate it too, not cause it was painful but because it didn't feel good, it kinda felt like the doctors. But when i told an ex and gave him pointers it felt so much better.

[trina3]

It depends on the vagina what makes people think that if it didn't hurt one person it's won't the next🤨😂

[leahzrc]

I never liked it once

[0112358]

I've never experienced a partner indicating it was painful.