Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it possible to be a "late bloomer" but still get a lot of girls?
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I'm still a virgin at 19 so my count is obviously 0. I'm wondering if its still possible later on to get the number into a respectable range? Or is my time passed because I'm lagging pretty far behind? Guys or girls can answer
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12 30I say yes but I would also say it depends on why you are still a virgin because if you're antisocial it can be difficult to change your situation.
why is quantity more important that quality? Who cares that you are a virgin? you not a diseased person. if you find that the first person you sleep with is the "One" why sleep with the rest?
You'll be fine. Girls didn't start talking to me until I turned 19 or 20. I finally could grow a beard and I took over the world. Your time is just beginning. I haven't been in a situation were numbers matter.
I had a friend who lived with his parents till he was almost 30 and he made Wilt Chamberlain look like an amateur.
What did he do, go to all of the girl's places? ha
What would you consider a respectable number? You've still got plenty of time yet i wouldn't worry about it
I feel you bro and yes its possible but if they dont mean anything to you what worth is it
Yes, it's possible. But I don't think that "getting a respectable amount" should be the goal :)
im gonna put yes because i hope so because im a virgin and im 20
Possible? Sure. Don't count on it unless you know how to get there
you are running late
I don't think there is something like a respectable range. People who care about that are very immature and childish. Like collecting Pokémon cards
A respectable range? You think sleeping with a good amount of girls will get you respect? Only guys that are hoes think that’s cool.
Yeah it's not a good view to have. But guy's are very compeitive and very ego driven. Most people like to know or feel they are sexually desirable to the opposite sex. Since it's harder for men to get sex. It's like proof or self validation that said man is a sexy beast if multiple attractive women want sex with him. It sucks it has to be that way, maturity usually changes that attitude in men. But our culture and how it shapes men's egos really is due to that.
I’m just glad Ik a lot of guys that don’t think like that. I’m also pretty sure it’s easy for anyone to have sex u just have to lower your standards real low. Why you would want to have random sex is beyond me. Yea I like when guys can attract women but if he’s sleeping with them all he’s nothing special.
Well that's the thing, I don't know most. But many guys will want sex, but not want it with anyone or ugly or fat chicks. But attractive girls, which is not so easy for a lot of guys. Why would guys want random sex? For various reason. Wanting to have fun at parties and get the sexual release and feel like they had a good time or capped off a fun night. It sucks being buzzed and horny and no one to help with that. Guys can have sex without needing to a connection. Guys can compartmentalize easier than women and random sex can seem attractive because it feels a desire, without commitment to one girl. So not all the stuff a man who wants his freedom may not want, but still having the sex. And because how visual guys are. You might understand it more or wonen would if visual toward men's bodies like men are to women. It's why men desire different women, because men find so many women attractive and their bodies and women are so diverse in their looks and body.
Moreso diverse I believe than men as far as bodies go.
The thing about is, Ik a good amount of chicks that would have random sex too pretty sure I made a poll about that as well. I don't know why guys think we’re so emotional that we need a connection to sleep with someone cause we don’t. I don’t key word NEED to have a connection but I would prefer to. Also women are visual towards men’s bodies lol I don't know why guys think all girls aren’t some girls prefer fat guys some girls prefer skinny guys some girls prefer muscular guys. Men’s body have a lot of diversity as well maybe u just don’t feel that way cause you’re a guy or something. I personally couldn’t date or sleep with a guy if I didn’t find him attractive. I’m personally not attracted to fat or skinny guys either. A lot of my female friends have a type their attracted to also. Lol I really wonder why y’all think we’re not visual, gold diggers aren’t visual creatures. Please don’t think that women don’t pay attention to guys bodies, cause we really do.
If having sex with random girls makes a guy feel better about himself or validated that I’m pretty sure he has a confidence problem
Well you said you don’t know how Guys can have sex with random girls. If you’re that visual you don’t need to love or have an connection with a woman and can enjoy just the physical lust. If you were that visual you’d understand that desire purely on the physical. true about a man might have a confidence problem, but don’t you think a man being a virgin or having had a few partners or not much sexual experience would be a bigger shot to his confidence? Especially if he’s wanted dates or sex but struggled talking to girls? If it’s a long time I betwee for when a man has sex that can not make a man feel good either. I don't know where a man would have confidence or feel good if he wants sex but struggled because of shyness or whatever. Would make sense for him not to be a man whore like op wants. But redeem his lack of success and get the sex he wants especially if less attractive, funny guys are even getting some and you know you’re better than them. This way underachieving
I didn’t say I don't know how guys can have sex with random girls all guys don’t do that thankfully
I do have to wonder what the respectable range is for the OP though. He shouldn't be trying to have sex with a ton of other girls to be respected by his peers and being a manwhore. I can see if a man wanted to do so, like have sex with a couple girls if he's a virgin to get more experience so he can be better if he meets a great girl. Or because he wants sex and wasn't getting any before. But chasing whatever obscrure amount to seem respectable definitely seems insecure. But unfortunatley culture shapes things that way with guys comparing themselves to each other. So the guy not doing well or what's perceived other guys are doingm will or could feel like a failure. It cuts both ways. Or culture hurts women with women being slut shamed, but it puts masculine ideals on such a pedestal and expectation. That men not matching up or feel they aren't can feel like failures. More open views on both sides would help men and women both better
Yea but I don’t see how having sex with a couple girls will help be better they might as well practice with one girl as everyone likes different things I kinda just think that’s an excuse to sleep around
the asked is a dumbass he’s getting all used up by chicks who don’t even care about him 😂
^Nfs it’s sad that there are guys that think this way
if u have a dick u can get girls
Sure np
To answer your question, yes. 19 is not a late bloomer though. Mid 20s and up is late blooming. I'm 30 and I'm a virgin, partily by choice and laziness
Does it ever make you upset or feel down or like you're a failure? Do you want to lose your virginity to a girl that is a virgin, or do you not care how experienced your first partner is with other men?
0-22: 0 girls
22-23: 15 different girls.
Dont be fooled though, i worked hard for it.
Yes!
Respectable range? Like 1 to 3?