Is it possible to be stimulated to orgasm by someone else, or yourself, and still be a virgin?

[laurieluvsit]

Let's say a guy or girl brought you to orgasm by hand, orally or with the use of a sex toy, but a real penis is never inserted in the vagina and you even have anal sex.

If you are female and never have penal-vaginal sex, or you never insert your penis in the vagina, if you are a guy... can you then still identify as a male, or female, virgin?

If you can still be a virgin this way, then is it OK to have all the sex you want in every other way except penal-vaginal sex and still remain virgin? ... is this complicated?

Let me put it this way... is virginity taken only with penal - vaginal sex and no other way?

Please share your opinion on this.

[Thatsamazing]

Uh... getting dick inside her means she's not a virgin. Doesn't matter which hole it is. Taking it in her ass does not "save her virginity" or whatever nonsense.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Virginity for men is having the first sexual experience in true fact men don't have a virginity.

For women they have tissue that would be like a seal which breaks during the Intercourse of penial and vagina so women loosing virginity is breaking of the tissue..

But if it comes to pschycologival assumptions then I consider even anal as sexual experience.

Virginity is just a concept, to determine the purity of women being untouched untill marriage as per the earlier days thought process...

[Blubby1234]

Actually not all women have a tissue that breaks when they first have sex. So that’s invalid

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Every female has it, its by nature's intent perhaps some abnormality or tissue defect may not develop the layer its not invalid its scientific

[NYCQuestions1976]

Sex.

[loveslongnails]

Inserting a dildo in your vagina, or fingering yourself to an orgasm, does not make you a "non-virgin". It takes a real live penis to do that.

[Walrus_au]

It very much depends on your definition of 'virgin'.

[Tunasub]

I believe that one is still a virgin until intercourse happen. Penial penetration.

[Akansha_i]

Yes it is totally possible, love getting stimulated by others

[MountAverage]

Virginity is an arbitrary concept. The most common definition is "penis in vagina". but that definition has so many flaws that you might as well just throw the whole concept out of the window. The most reasonable definition would be to draw the line of virginity where you have ANY kind of sex with another person. Regardless of which body parts it does or doesn't include.

[COMMODOREII]

Generally it is defined as intercourse with a man and woman. But i know where you are going with this. 😉😎

[1kink]

I don't know how to answer this. I guess if one is asked, have you had sex, most would assume intercourse and the answer would be yes or no, but with a footnote. Is penetration sex, with all the others considered heavy petting? Is virginity based on the intent of procreating or risking it? Maybe that's it.

[Kelly6]

Yes.

[bklynbadboy1]

If you've been penetrated in your ass or pussy your no longer a virgin now if someone ayed with your clit until you came that's different cause nothing was inverted inside of you

[OpenNudist]

I believe that unless you've had sexual intercourse you're still a virgin.

[CharlieDMX]

Men lose their virginity when they put their penis in a vagina (or butthole). Women lose it when they get a penis inserted into their vagina (not when the hynen breaks). Anything else that gets you off is fair game to still be considered a virgin

[Numbnuts89]

nope

[msc545]

Yes, it is.

[Tstrbrainer]

I think any sexual act with a partner takes away virginity

[the_sinner]

Yes.
I think if the skin is ruptured then in physical pov the virginity is lost.

[Stella_79]

I think it’s a gray area. Years ago and some don’t count oral sex no chance of pregnancy.

[Sabretooth]

by yourself, yes.