Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Let's say a guy or girl brought you to orgasm by hand, orally or with the use of a sex toy, but a real penis is never inserted in the vagina and you even have anal sex.
If you are female and never have penal-vaginal sex, or you never insert your penis in the vagina, if you are a guy... can you then still identify as a male, or female, virgin?
If you can still be a virgin this way, then is it OK to have all the sex you want in every other way except penal-vaginal sex and still remain virgin? ... is this complicated?
Let me put it this way... is virginity taken only with penal - vaginal sex and no other way?
Please share your opinion on this.
Is it possible to be stimulated to orgasm by someone else, or yourself, and still be a virgin?
laurieluvsit Master
A. Definitely! ... as long as a real penis is not inserted in a vagina only, there is no loss of virginity no matter what! All other types of sex are free game in terms of loosing your virginity
Vote A
B. No that is not possible, any sexual play, even masturbating to orgasm, and anal sex will make you a non-virgin, sorry
Vote B
C. I'm not sure, that seems like a gray area to me
Vote C
D. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open up the "True Virgin" survey
Vote D
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
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What Girls & Guys Said
12 44I went for B... cause so far I know you need to break the hymen to count as non virgin... isn't it?
Sure Levi luving lol
As long as you dont break the Hymen you are still a virgin
Yes. It is very possible. Many virgins gets great pleasure masturbating themselves.
Sex is sex and the word penetration means exactly that
Toys no toys fingers tongue grinding dancing is our minds
Sex sex and nothing butt so no
Virginity for us
Yes everything is possible, for example when 2 virgin girls licking each other pussies.
Yes. A handjob or a fingering could do it with some clitoral stimulation on the ladies side.
Don't know
Yes.. if penis size is not big, and inserted slowly... you may not lose your virginity.
I mean virginity is just a made up idea, so who cares?
If it is with someone else then you're not a virgin; if it is by yourself then you are.
Yeah! i believe that and that's why i call myself virgin