Is it possible to have a crush on someone without being sexually attracted to them?

Anonymous

I've been told by some people that this guy has a crush on me but I don't know him. I'm not attractive and there's nothing sexually appealing about me.

Without those things, can you really call it a crush?

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GoBlueSC4 Xper 7
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Very possible
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Randomgirl88888 Xper 2
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Maybe you just admire them
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Anonymous
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Absolutely
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- Asker
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  How is that different from liking someone as a friend
- Opinion Owner
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  Because having a crush with someone can not always depend on sexual attraction, can also be because of personality
- Opinion Owner
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  Liking someone only as a friend--treating someone as your sibling and nothing more... Liking someone romantically involves something more
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- Asker
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  I don't understand what it means to like someone romantically
Anonymous
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Yeah, there's plenty of people I like who I wouldn't really wanna be with
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- Asker
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  So those are friends then
- Opinion Owner
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  Well, no. Think about your favorite celebrity. You may have a crush on them, but you might not want to be with them in real life.
- Asker
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  I can't relate to that so that still doesn't make sense to me
Anonymous
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How do you know for sure this guy could find you attractive. What's he like?
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- Asker
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  What do you mean?
- Opinion Owner
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  What is the guy like?
- Asker
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  I don't know him
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- Opinion Owner
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  Is he a classmate, coworker a neighbor an acquaintance?
- Asker
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  Why do you ask?
- Asker
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  Coworker but we don't work in the same areas or even interact. I never even noticed him until people started telling me he has a crush on me.
- Opinion Owner
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  Just curious maybe I can help give you some advice I'm trying to get over feelings for a coworker that isn't into me
- Opinion Owner
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  Do you have feelings for him and what is he like as a person?
- Asker
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  Like I said, I don't know him... I don't even know his name. I have no idea what he is like as a person
- Opinion Owner
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  Never mind then I'm sorry
- Opinion Owner
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  So are you going to talk to him
- Asker
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  No, I wasn't planning on doing anything about it. He came up to me yesterday and asked what time I get off work, mumbled something (not sure what he said) and walked off.
- Asker
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  How do you know your coworker isn't into you
- Opinion Owner
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  Long story do you want to hear it?
- Asker
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  Sure
- Opinion Owner
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  Well there was a girl at work that would tease me everytime she saw me although she was probably just doing it to make fun of me
- Opinion Owner
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  She randomly called me babe and said love yoouuuu when I asked her about it she said I don't know haha sorry and then when I asked her if it was a slip of the tongue she said nope and its whatever you want it to be
- Opinion Owner
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  Then when I asked her if she picks on me because I'm an easy target she said "could be 😉" "but I dont make fun of you"
Anonymous
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Crush's, are for little kids
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- Asker
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  Well what's another term for crush?
- Opinion Owner
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  You like them Again, having a "school girl/boy" crush, is for little kids ADMIT IT, YOU FUCKING LIKE THEM
- Asker
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  Well the people that told me didn't use the word "crush"