Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it really cheating if you tell them?
Jessie91331 Xper 6
You are in a relationship and almost everything is perfect, you are madly in love and love and respect and care for the person. The prob is you are not sexually in sync. Either they have a super low or super high sex drive and you are the opposite. Is it cool to see others just for sex?
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14 49If you get your partners permission, its not cheating. In the past I've been with a guys wife, he was good with it, he said he liked his wife enjoying herself.
He came in to check on her for safety every so often.
Obviously you talk about this with your partner 1st don't do anything behind their back but if they disagree, Then you might want to end that relationship with them because if they are not giving you what you need sexually or vice versa they're gonna find it from somewhere else or you are so you Might as well come clean beforehand instead of trying to keep secrets
So you love him Like a brother? Why would you be in a relationship that both of you arnt fully satisfied. You should have both a mental and physical attraction.
It's cool if both parties agree, genuinely agree. Not just feel compelled to.
Otherwise it's definitely cheating.
U ask first then no
I'm actually thinking about this too. My penis is too small for my girlfriend and i can barely keep an erection so i want her to have sex with someone better and bigger than me. Maybe i will let her. It would turn me on too
"Someone better"? Dude, just because you have a small penis doesn't mean you have to have small brains too
@RemoErdosain i meant better in bed
Alright, should've said so in the first place. Personally, I think it's not even worth it to have a girlfriend if she's going to be banging other guys
@RemoErdosain It's still better than not having a girlfriend. Plus i would enjoy watching her with other guys
I beg to differ: It is NOT better than not having a girlfriend
Yes, even if you tell them.
if you have that worked out before hand it would be okay, if not than no
Depends if your partner knows and is ok with it sure. If he’s not it’s cheating.
No, it means you're a piece of shit
Cuckold is not cheating
No it's not ok and if ur able to lay in bed with someone other then ur partner... then u should rethink the relashtionship ur in because it'd ur truly madly in love then there would be no other
The term "cheating" is erroneous and stupid and no one should use it.
So do u have a high sex drive and ur partner doesn’t?
Work together as two birds of a feather.
LOL no its still cheating.. Seriously if a man tolerates that out of his partner, he is a cuck, or a simp, or both.. And women that choose disloyalty are not worthy of respect.
yea there is an entire fetish built around it called cuckolding or cuckqueening if the man is the one who is sleeping around with her permission. I enjoy watching my girlfriends with other men or having them come home just after being with someone else let me know if you have any questions
If you tell them, you are moving from cheating to cuckolding
Depends if its an open relationship or not.