Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it reasonable that I don't want to swallow his load?
Anonymous
I recently started seeing this guy, like two weeks ago. So far we had sex two times and I sucked him off five times. He really likes BJ's and he's been asking me (almost begging me) to swallow it when he cums in my mouth. The thing is, I only do that for special people. We are still in the "getting to know each other" phase and he hasn't been really clear about where this is going, and I don't want to swallow until we're official. It is a very special act to me. He's not pushy about it when I suck him off but he keeps mentioning it when we sext and I'm getting tired of saying no. How do I explain to him that I won't swallow it until I'm sure about his intentions without seeming pushy?
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11 24No..
I don't know what you mean by special act/people. if you like it swallow it if you don't don't. Is there something objectively complex here that I'm not seeing?
I'd ditch you
So u let him cum in your mouth
yes and then I spit it out.
It would make more sense if you stopped him exploding in your mouth until you get commitment all together
Its reasonable. Do you allow him to cum in your pussy and ass?
HAHAHAH special people
She's sucking his dick but only swallows the load of special people.
Perfectly reasonable. You do not have to do it.
that is the weirdest reason I ever heard of for not swallowing. you wanted it to be special. you should have held off blowing him until you knew where it was going.
yes you don't have to