Is it reasonable to break up with a Girl if she won’t do anal?

Question

So I’m kinda seeing this girl but it ain’t nothing serious. She is a virgin and she doesn’t wanna have sex until she is sure she loves me and is in a committed relationship. I personally wanna have anal but she is against it. She also ain’t down to give me head. Pretty much every girl these days gives head and does anal so should I just stop taking to her and go for another girl who will do those things?

AlienParasite · Accepted Answer

Weren't you that one saying the other day you wanted to have sex each weekend with a different college or stuff like that?

I think you should stop seeing each other, but because you have different goals, she aims a commited relationship, you only are desperate to fuck. Don't go for people who wants love and commitment if you only want to fuck and aren't going to give a shit about other aspect of relationships. It's ok to just want to have sex but the more honest about it since the beginning the less problems later. Plus, you don't want to be in a commited relationship just for sex. That's stupid. Go for girls who don't want commitment, or that search for a friend with benefit or stuff like that.

Moonchild714 · Accepted Answer

Yes break up with her, because she's better off without you!! All you want is Sex, you can get that from any girl as you stated, so go find one!!!

Just so you know not every girl does those things nowadays, I know many who don't. Even I do a lot of Sexual things but Oral and Anal I have to really love the guy!!!

She was right with her decision not to have any sex with you until she was sure she loves you, well that goes both ways little boy she was making sure you really love her!!!

Liskitty · Accepted Answer

She already told you that she doesn't want to do these things until she's sure about you.
If you think that is a reason for a breakup then go ahead. It sounds to me like you both aren't exactly made for each other.

Shy_Baddy24_ · Accepted Answer

Only if anal sex outways the value of the actual relationship and emotional connection

Twalli · Accepted Answer

If she won't do oral, anal, or regular sex then I w8dump her, but my girlfriend was against anal for a while until we just decided to try it once just to see and she loved it. So your virgin girl may try it eventually, but she needs to give you a handjob at the very least. Don't expect it to be good though. Right now the most important thing is for her to not be afraid of your dick.

My girlfriend had only given one blowjob before me. She hadn't even masturbated. I was also a virgin (sans masturbation, but I knew what to do from porn). I let her play with my penis until she was comfortable with it. Now we do oral, anal, and piv sex without any problems.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Sounds to me like you already know what you need to do. Move on.

djmzes · Answer

Simple

surferbabe901 · Answer

Def break up with her, you aren't respecting her decisions and you're only focusing on yourself. She doesn't owe you head, anal, or any other sexual favor, and if you can't respect her decision, you need to GTFO.

Paris13 · Answer

SHE DESERVES BETTER, RUDE DUDE. xxoo

Love2Jackit · Answer

No you shouldn't break up with them. You should work with them. Who knows one day it might worth ur while.

SonOfLucifer · Answer

If you're looking only to get laid then yes, leave her and say you're not interested in a relationship.

SkipStop · Answer

Ummm... if it's that important to you then sure.

brathwaitereginald74 · Answer

Your priorities and hers are polar opposites, she's about commitment and your not so it's not going to work out.

Sarah_77 · Answer

I think you should break up with her , because she deserves better.

icedragoom · Answer

Okay well let me tell you now. If you are dating for sex you are a pig and it is cruel / mean to mess with a girls heart like that you should break it off and apologize to her

BrookieCookie0422 · Answer

I think that’s reasonable to break up. It’s something that can be worked through but it sounds like she’s not being compliant or willing to compromise at all. I don’t blame you. I think sex is super important in a relationship.

SpiritBear · Answer

Absolutely not

Clearblueskye · Answer

Yes. You’ll be doing her a favor. Please break up with her.

natzz · Answer

wow dude you’ve got the audacity. If you really loved her and cared for her, you would understand where she's coming from. Just let her go, you don’t deserve her. Poor girl

Landshrk0068 · Answer

Totally unreasonable. You should do what normal people do and just stone her to death.

JamesBoradil03 · Answer

sex is an important part of her relationship, if she is not willing to compromise it may not work out.

ROCKS128 · Answer

You are not looking for relationship. But for sexual activities... 😂

oncpl · Answer

She is virgin and so obviously afraid of having anal, bj and other sexual activities. She needs tutoring and encouragement to get herself prepare for sex.