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What do you think? Based on your social circle would you or your friends consider it slutty to have sex on the first date?
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30 93Let's just forget the word "slut". That just means "a woman having sex with other men but not me."
Have sex if you want to have sex. If the man rejects you for being "too easy", you haven't lost anything. He's an ass.
No, sluts actually do exist. More and more every day.
I agree….. it’s nothing I would “define”
You only have sex if it's pre-arranged or if you really click. Not out of "necessity"
I see nothing wrong with it, if you're attracted to this person and your two consenting adults then by all means do whatever you want to do. It's none of your friends business, they don't need to know about it and that way you don't get judged.
It's slutty to have sex before marriage.
This crap is why I'm still single. Since people are being taught to be whoring prostitutes for free, I can't simply comfortably date a woman, can't just get to know her. She wants to skip EVERYTHING and go straight to sex? I find that repugnant. Where's the actual relationship? It's soo sad, it's another reason we are in the end times. JESUS IS INDEED COMING SOON!
So far 55% slutty a lot or little, makes no difference, 45% not slutty
Not slutty, I've done it many times 🤷🏽♀️
yeah, it's slutty but it happens
It depends , if you both have amazing chemistry and connection and have a lot in common then no it isn’t slutty , it’s only slutty if you are pretending to have a lot in common with that other person just to get laid , then you are a slut
No. Its not slutty. But 99.9% of the time; the guy will never speak to you again sadly because they are Morons. Usually sexist Morons.
sexist-moron---MORMONS hahahha jk
It's a little slutty but remember... it takes two to tango.
It is supper slutty but so is sex outside of marriage… haha!
I don’t really hold that opinion though. You should know the person though. Like if you have been friend and finally decide that you are attracted to each other.
I don't know if I would consider it slutty per definition but for me it isn't a positive thing to do. It kinda makes me doubt wether you would be faithfull during a relationship because when it's so easy for her to have sex with people they hardly know then the possibility for her to decide to cheat when the relationship is going true a rough time becomes bigger maybe.
I wouldn't recommend you doing that because you are more likely being considered a one-nightstand or someone friends with benefits type then being relationship material for guys
Pretty much ensures there will be a second date.
Will NOT be a second date,
A, especially if you don't go home first. Not necessarily bad, though. FFS, insist on a condom, though.
A little. I think it's okay. And the men who judge you for it probably are jealous of your healthy sex life.
Look at the comments way more women judging
if you really liked the guy and would plan on seeing him again it is okay.
Why worry about what you want to do if you are attracted to the person and you are both all worked up and want to have sex go for it!
Pink Anon I agree with @sharonhere96… Who cares whether others think having sex on the first date is “slutty” or not (and if so, whether they think it is “normal” and “how slutty” it is)? Everyone is different, and oriole have different definitions for what “slutty” (and other words) mean. Instead, just be comfortable about your decision to have (or not have) sex on the first date (along with EVERYTHING you like/think/say/do).
* people have different definitions
It is slutty, but that doesn't bother me, unless we're in a long term relationship and you betrayed me.
That's really why a lot of men hate sluts. The religious stuff sought to constrain that further.
It's okay to be a slut, is what I'm saying. Just be considerate as well, and exercise discipline over yourself as well. An inconsiderate slut is not a good trait.
People who do this aren't looking for relationships, just sex partners with a token level of commitment.
still dating someone where we had sex on the first date, normal things
depends on the date and vibe