Sexual Relationships 
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Ok so I had a bit of a blunder last night I was with a guy and he was saying how good my pussy feels while inside me. I said it’s great you don’t hurt like some other guys do and he got upset at that. He didn’t say anything but he went silent and finished on a whimper. He told me afterwards he was abit sensitive about his size and me bringing up precious guys stretching me too much that it hurt made him self conscious. I tried to console him saying I don’t mind I actually prefer that a guy isn’t too big cause it can hurt but he didn’t seem to cheer up. :(. Left shortly after and I felt pretty terrible about it.
Probably won’t see him again but I don’t understand why some guys care so much about previous partners dick sizes or skill in bed. Why is it such a bother? It’s not a competition.
What Girls & Guys Said
15 68Don't worry about it. If the guy is THAT sensitive about the size of his penis, I call that 'too bad" ..."Get used to it" ! I never understood that 'jealousy' if you call it that. I was always curious about how well hung previous sex partners were, and it never bothered me to hear it.
Sounds more like a high school boy attitude. (Don;t tell anybody I said that) LOLOL
It an immediate deal breaker. Nobody but a moron would do that.
We guys like to think we are the best. Even though we know, deep down, that the woman may have been with guys in the past that were bigger, or better, than we are now, we just don't want to hear about it. Live in the now, not the past.
Honestly, when my wife mentioned the very big size of one of her teachers having had had now and then sex with her, I didn't give a damn, and it was before she became my wife. That lover of her said that his wife was far too narrow, and that she complained of being hurt by the man's big dick. My wife said she never had an orgasm with that lover... I'm myself just average sized, not big, not small. Same for my wife: not wide, not narrow, and everything went well with her and me on that level. Why would I bother about any other ex of hers being much bigger sized? Sometimes still interesting information to understand the notion of compatibility, and how relative such things are.
It is a slightly rude comment, but I would get over it quickly. Dick size is what men are stuck with, I am of average size. I am not envious of guys who are larger, nor would I shame guys who are smaller
It is a competition whether you say it is or not. What if he talked about the big tits on his last girlfriend?
It was a weird thing for you to say, but it was in the heat of the moment. Some guys are more insecure about that than others.
I don't know... people say all kinds of doofy stuff when they're having sex; I wouldn't have taken your comment personally.
Yes it is taboo
Not taboo, just kind of weird.
Well I think guys don’t want to know about another guys dick because he would think you’re not interested in him (specifically because you talk about a dick that isn’t his). What if a guy is comparing your pussy or your boobs to another girls.
Okay, so I’m not gonna lie? The more I read your questions the more of a bimbo you seem like…….
And unfortunately for me, I like bimbos so I’m following you now.
but ah….. don’t do that again…..
Think about it….. if a dude said “oh man, you feel almost as good as Becky.”
and he showed you who Becky was later after you asked? How would you feel.
Seek towards empathy, gamer girl bimbo…..
Haha well I’m not going to deny I am abit of a bimbo lol. I have my intellectual moments though sometimes. 😅
Do you now? Without thinking, who is the most fuckable philosopher? Choose wisely.
I can’t think of a name off the top of my head Fk 😅
Tsk tsk tsk….. *smh* 😂
You implied he was small. That is why. Its one of those no no insults for men.. It sucks but its true.
i'd have asked for more details and more stories.
Never ever say he's not big.
No matter what you say it's gonna make him feel less than other dudes.
You should've told him to get a penis pump (instant results) and a penis extender (longer term results). Both work, he can also do Jelq exercises. I'm now so big that most bytches can't even wrap their hand (or mouth) around it
If a guy said this "Damn Baby! Your vagina feels amazing! Not overly tight like some of my exes!" to you during the middle of intercourse, you (and just about every woman out there) would throw him out of bed and probably never speak to him again, and rightfully so.
That's different, because "tightness" is (falsely) attributed to body count, so basically he's slut-shaming her.
@crazycagurlz Not necessarily or automatically, and it's still a negative thing to say, especially during intercourse.
Not all guys base their whole existence on their wang like some have suggested but no one wants to feel bad about themselves. Some people are just sensitive to this kind of thing. Men and women have insecurities about their bodies. I tend to not care about stuff like this but as a woman it's good to think about how you say things like this just like men should do the same for women. All in all I believe you sincerely didn't mean to upset him, and for that I hope you both reconcile.
You should never bring up past experiences. You could have just said that you like the way he feels good inside you and left it at that.
Say 30 hale- Mary's.. you'll be okay
That's something you probably want to talk about before having sex.
You were trying say that he felt good with you too…just the words got mixed up. Maybe saying “you feel so good too…” or something like that would better