Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Ok so I had a bit of a blunder last night I was with a guy and he was saying how good my pussy feels while inside me. I said it’s great you don’t hurt like some other guys do and he got upset at that. He didn’t say anything but he went silent and finished on a whimper. He told me afterwards he was abit sensitive about his size and me bringing up precious guys stretching me too much that it hurt made him self conscious. I tried to console him saying I don’t mind I actually prefer that a guy isn’t too big cause it can hurt but he didn’t seem to cheer up. :(. Left shortly after and I felt pretty terrible about it.
Probably won’t see him again but I don’t understand why some guys care so much about previous partners dick sizes or skill in bed. Why is it such a bother? It’s not a competition.
What Girls & Guys Said
15 68Some guys say they want the truth…then get hurt by it…not your fault…
Yes it is, and what's the point of doing that in the first place?
What if he said “your boobs are so handy, not big like other girls I’ve fucked”
Ok yeah that would upset me I get that.
Lol yeah
I don't answer your ish anymore. You contradict yourself too much. There's no point in trying to
Think I would kill myself if this ever happened lol
Yeah. He is a b*+%h. How you hitting it with a female, and gets upset about something as dumb as dick size. Insecure MF…. I understand there are guys that are bigger than me and some that are smaller… pussy is pussy it pushing a whole fuckin baby out of it. No dick size can compete with that. Enjoy that!! He just need to grow up.
I kinda like hearing about her past and details about it…. although not early in the relationship. I want to build our relationship and confidence in it / ourselves first.
I think that might make me a bit uncomfortable. No woman has ever done that in my experience.
Is it taboo if I let my wife have sex with her EX?
Ha! Huge error on your part. What if he said "yeah, your pussy is tighter/looser than some others I've had".
Stupid.
Guys are competitive. It's in our dna and most feel inadequate when compared to others. General tip, don't do that openly to their face.
A few exceptions to the rule are men these days that like the girl they see to have a history and is turned on sharing in her experience.
That sounded like a direct insult, taboo would be sleeping with a step mom, or a pastor sleeping with a member's wife.
I don't know what you were trying to accomplish with that remark but if I was him iI would have kicked you out right then there.
Or what guy could have said in response was, you know the women I've been with have been much tighter than you, why are you so loose and smelly.
It never a good idea to compare people on anything because you can't be sure how someone is going to take it.
You basically told him, probably without really wanting it, that he had a small dick.
It would be the equivalent of a guy telling a woman she's fatter than her ex, or has smaller boobs.
And guys know that most women care about dick size, even if in action it doesn't matter that much, the way it looks is appealing to ladies, just like boobs are to men.
It's not a competition, but if he told you that his ex has this or that better than you, you wouldn't take it too well either.
I don't blame you tho, you probably didn't mean no harm, but it's better to leave it aside in general.
Yeah as soon as I said it I regretted it. I was trying to be complimentary but it definitely came out wrong. I feel really bad now :( The last thing I want to do is upset someone. Stupid stupid mouth of mine.
You're a sweetheart, we both know that, and we know you didn't mean no harm, and I'm sure he does too, it was just on the moment.
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was weird
No one wants a small one.
That was a blunder alright
Ya, you put your proverbial foot in your mouth. Live & Learn and move on.
No, I wouldn't tell a girl "You're so much looser than every other girl I've been with. It's nice to not have to feel as much"
And as I replied to someone else: Men are being bombarded everywhere on the internet with women saying they want big dicks and that small dicks are bad, with women complaining about previous guys small dick and their go to insult to men are about small dicks.
Also you don't see many 4" and thin dildos if you browse for them in webshops, so supply and demand would tell you most women don't go shopping for smaller ones.
You said you probably won't see him again, is that because you don't want to or because he is ignoring you since you hurt him? Have you tried reaching out to apologize and explain yourself?
No I want to because I feel so bad about it but don’t have his number and have no idea where he is now. All I can do is learn from my mistake and make sure not to repeat in the future.
So it was just someone you met in a bar or something? If you don't have any way to contact him. You feel bad because you hurt him or because you actually mean it and you want to continue seeing him?
I don't mind hearing that myself, if anything I'm curious to know such details.