Is it taboo to bring up an ex’s dick size?

Ok so I had a bit of a blunder last night I was with a guy and he was saying how good my pussy feels while inside me. I said it’s great you don’t hurt like some other guys do and he got upset at that. He didn’t say anything but he went silent and finished on a whimper. He told me afterwards he was abit sensitive about his size and me bringing up precious guys stretching me too much that it hurt made him self conscious. I tried to console him saying I don’t mind I actually prefer that a guy isn’t too big cause it can hurt but he didn’t seem to cheer up. :(. Left shortly after and I felt pretty terrible about it.


Probably won’t see him again but I don’t understand why some guys care so much about previous partners dick sizes or skill in bed. Why is it such a bother? It’s not a competition.

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I blame my stupid mouth I don’t know why it came out. I didn’t mean to seem insensitive I was trying to compliment him but my phrasing was wrong and I get that :(.
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  • Yeah, you've never learned a valuable lesson. Don't comment about guys dick size.

    • At least the previous ones, and DEFINITELY not during the act!

  • It is...

  • I really don’t mind it cuz I’m usually bigger, but I can see why this guy could’ve taken it the wrong way. Still seems too insecure if you ask me.

  • Well I guess his reaction answered your question lol

  • I think its hot when ladies do! No idea why

  • I could get that but then I’d be curious how big ur exes were that they would hurt u.

  • should never

  • Unless he was smaller or shape wasn't as good.

    • It sucks because you basically told him his was more pleasurable, and he took it as he was smaller. He kinda ignored the pleasurable part. Lol

    • Yeah I didn’t mean to upset him. I was going for complimentary but it just came out wrong :(

  • Probably wasn't a good idea

  • Yes it is a competition. We all want to be the best.

  • There are somethings I don't want to know about my gfs history

  • Omg... never do it, especially if he's smaller

  • Some guys can feel very self conscious about it especially if they're on the smaller side.

  • I think for me dick size is the hardest because it can't be altered... Girls with small boobs can be enlarged, vulvas can have surgery to make them look how the owner wants. Guys can't really get functional extensions. And the only real option for girth are implants.

    Other criticism can always be used for improvement, but not that one...

  • I think so

  • Probably for most guys. Personally I don't care one way or the other.

  • That's a great way to ensure he will never again feel secure in a relationship with you.

  • All he heard was "You have a small dick"... No guy wants to hear that, lol...

  • Not at all, first time my girlfriend and i had sex, she told me i was bigger than her ex boyfriend. And after we had sex. She also said i was harder than him, But he would cum a lot more, and his cum was thicker. And tasted salty

    she took us unprotected and tasted our cum. Just weeks apart. And compared the 2 side by side, and talked about it.