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Sexual Health Is it transphobic not to want to sleep with a trans person?
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No, its smart.
It's hard to sleep with somebody when you find them disgusting.
No at all, I mean your either attracted to men who have a penis or a woman who have a vagina, so when you kind of see that mixed up it's can be a problem to what your used too, so if your trans it's best to go for other trans because more often than not your gonna be dissapoint with other you go for.
Not being mean but people chose trans life style either if you think your a man in a woman's body or visa versa, you can still expect to have friends but relationship wise will be trixky
As a trans person I don't find it transphobic.
I understand that some straight females wouldn't want to sleep with me since I still have female body when they're into dick it's as simple as that🤷♂️
No. It's normal
I won ' t hold back.
It depends. If she is really passing and you were already attracted before knowing and you change your mind after she told you if she told you ( she is not obligated to ) especially if she is post op, then yes, it ' s transphobic, extremely so in fact.
If you don ' t like a specific trans girl or trans person, then no, it ' s not.
Pretending you don ' t like them but secretly masturbating and wanting to fuck them is worse than transphobic. It ' s called being a pathetic and sad waste of skin that should hang themselves.
Which one are you?
It's not a man's (or lesbian's) fault if they don't want to have sex involving a penis. They can't control their sexuality. As for being post-op: some people prefer biological vaginas and they can have a preference if they want to. Just like I've heard of guys losing interest in cis women after hearing she has breast implants. It doesn't make the person any less of a woman, but people are allowed to have preferences. I don't call gay men misogynistic because they don't want to have sex with me. People are allowed to have sexual preferences.
@mistixs Those are just preconceptions and if a trans person is post op they don ' t have to tell you and you would be none the wiser, especially with transgenderism becoming more mainstream and socially acceptable and many cis women with more masculine features or more androgynous looks being taken for trans. When a cis woman says she was a victim of transphobia because people assumed she was trans, then you know she ain ' t speaking shitting you. When a person says it ' s gay to have sex with a trans girl because " that ' s a man " it ' s usually the last option on my list, the waste of skin one. I ' m bi so I don ' t know what it feels like to be repulsed by sex organs because being bi I like them both, but rejecting a vagina just because " it ' s not natural " or a person with breast implants is so stupid in so many levels. Guess what. People ' s second skin ( clothes ) and artificial hoofs ( shoes ) are not natural either, yet I never met a sane person being turned off by a clothed and shod person.
@mistixs Also I witnessed something even more stupid in Germany. My uncle took me to a nudist sauna. People there are always completely naked in the sauna room, no underwear, no bathing suit, just towels that they don ' t use to cover their privates but to sit on so they don ' t sit directly on the bench. Men and women are naked together in the sauna room. Many of them stroll around the establishment naked too. They swim naked in the pool, tan naked when it ' s summer and so on. Yet they have gendered locker rooms, showers and toilets. What ' s the point? The other patrons that are of the opposite gender already saw you in full birth suit.
Well I am happy to say I am going to give you exactly what your group has been fighting for... An Equal consideration answer. Just because someone doesn't want to sleep with you does not give you the right to say they're not sleeping with me because I'm Special. Men have been rejected by women and they have never said it's because “I'm a Guy they wouldn't sleep with me”. When a man has ever ran off from another woman, they have never said “he left me because she was the better woman and was better at sex”. Simply put. no one has ever dated someone that they didn't see something in the relationship that they enjoyed. Men date women because they like dating women. Women date men because they like dating men. If a guy , who is found enjoyment dating other guys, find out your also into guys... They find you more attractive. Same thing with women who like dating other women. As with every other relationship , if something happens that causes a breakup or something where the person no longer wants to be in the relationship , the very last thing it could ever be, ... would be something that was always there in the beginning, at least not something they were trying to get passed.
@Fatherhere901 I think you confuse me with some leftie. I ' m not one to advocate for equality and I often said we are not equal and that ' s a blessing. It gives incentive for competition, which brings progress and keeps you in shape. In fact I have many right wing convictions and consider myself alt right. It ' s only on some LGBT matters, particularly trans, some sexual matters and some matters regarding women that I have less than traditional opinions. I said it ' s not transphobic to reject a specific trans person. It ' s transphobic to reject all trans people while declaring the reason you reject them is your sexuality, because if you do that you deny their gender, which among other problems can be detrimental to your health in case you are unfortunate enough to deny a particularly bad ass transgender person ' s gender to their face ( I learned since the military is the last card a nation play, anything can be solved by the way of the club when everything else fails ).
its never "transphobic" to not want to sleep with a man once you realize he is a man
@Opinion Owner I am sorry for thinking you believed everyone had a choice in their sexual preference. But, I am not going to practice another sexual belief, as you suggest, until I like it. I am happy as I am. And, I DO BELIEVE everyone has a choice in their sexual preference... as long as their practice of it does not interfere with someone else's.
@Fatherhere901 Exactly. You like a girl, you approach her properly and get her to like you too. That ' s it.
Nah. Some people just don't want to sleep with someone who looks like a different gender but has the same genitals as they do. However, if they are post-op and are basically the opposite gender in all forms, but they tell you they're trans and suddenly you hate them and want nothing to do with them, then yeah, that's transphobic.
Not entirely. It depends at which point in time you were told. One could end up feeling like they were lied to and can lead to trust issues... And trust is needed in any relationship. Sure the trans person could be scared to tell the truth right away due to past experiences, but it's always best to clear the air right from the start, rather than wasting your time and effort in something that wasn't going to work out in the first place. Secondly, one may prefer to have a family in the future... One that is biological / natural without adoption or without some lab getting involved in the process. That's pretty difficult to do after transitioning, and can be a deal breaker. Some guys and girls who are straight have a hard time finding a good relationship if they already can't have kids for whatever reason, because others want to have kids. It's a common deal breaker. It sucks, but that's what some people want... So why would that suddenly be different when it's a trans involved?
Point taken.
No such thing as "transphobic"... and it's perfectly reasonable for a normal person to not want to "sleep" with a gender dysphoric person
Yeah no; you shouldn't have to sleep with someone to prove that you don't hate them.
What? My whole life has been a lie!! Arrruggh!! Now I feel like a slut.
@LesterJester Technically you would be a cad, as that is the male term for a slut.
I like slut more 😋 rolls off the tongue
No it’s not