Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health The typical response is, "Stop being possessive and insecure, you have to trust your girlfriend or wife." But people completely misunderstand. It's not about trust, it's about respect and being responsible. Let me explain:
Good people can still be overcome by temptation. And when people are drunk they will often do things that they wouldn't normally do if they were sober. How often have you heard people say, "It was a drunken mistake." A woman might not have any intention of cheating on her boyfriend or husband, but she goes out with her friends and gets really drunk. Her friends then meet a bunch of horny men in a club, and they start flirting with each other. One of the men then makes a pass at the married woman, and on spare of the moment she is overcome by temptation and then one thing leads to another.
The point I'm making is that quite often people who never have any intention of cheating still end up cheating when they put themselves in certain situations. And men know what men are like when it comes to seeing attractive women in a pub or club. So why is it a great mystery as to why a lot of men don't like their wives going out drinking? Being protective doesn't make him possessive.
Is it understandable for a man to feel insecure when his wife goes out drinking with her friends?
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13 55No, you just listen in through their phone nsa style. LoL
Completely understandable, but I would have a serious talk with her beforehand and get it all transparent
Find out what mindset she is going out with
Yes I think so , that’s why I’m trying to find a woman that doesn’t drink for a wife ( no offense to you or her) I don’t trust drunk women or drunk men/ sober men. They do dumb things. Now I’m not saying that she is but there is a possibility
You sound like an insecure beta "male".
And you sound like a mangina simp
Talk to a psychologist about your trust issues. by the way most of the time people who don't trust others do so because they know that they themselves can't be trusted.
That's a myth. Stop being such a mangina simp faggot.
No, not a myth. Simple psychology. You have a weak mind, it's as simple as that.
Of course it's a myth, you mangina faggot.
Your originality also seems to be lacking. Is there anything you're not horrible at?
Is there anything you're intelligent at?
You always have that pit in ur stomach but if you trust her alls good
I let my ex go out... she found a new boyfriend, so there's that.
She also accused me of wanting to go on dates if I wanted to meet with my female friends for coffee.
Yes I was insecure and suspicious, but in the end my insecuritiy and suspicion was proven correct. Of course I didn't say anything BCS I'd just get told to stop being possessive and all that.
Doesn't matter what you do , women always find a way to blame men
Probably so. It seems fairly common.
Totally reasonable.
Well how does she feel when you go out with your
Friends
I'm single. And I never go out drinking.
Perhaps that's why you're still single lol
Probably yes. I'm just against alcohol and I don't like being surrounded by pissheads.
Nothing wrong with abstaining from drinking
Personally I think that if you're married and still going to bars and drinking acting single basically you're not ready to be married.
You should switch your going out to bar to more tame outings other than drinking in a bar.
I would dump her if something like that would ever come to her mind.
You allow her too much.
I believe if that man has done her wrong emotionally or physically than he should worry.. but if all is good and there is trust than no.. because who do you come home to every night.
No I suppose not. But u have to trust that by now she wouldn't let herself get so drunk that she loose all control that she needed to say no n remain faithful. I mean I know wen I'm with som1 I dnt get as drunk at a bar as I do wen single jus so that dnt happen besides there's usually a designated driver or 1 friend that stays fairly sober a few beers all nght so she can prvent her friends from making a mistake like that. So if u run into a group of married chicks n their all drunk either they already did it a 100 times n they jus won't cheat on their man nomatter how drunk they get their normally beer drinkers n they dnt touch liquor unless their man so n after years of practice n devotion 2 🍺 they have a high tolerance so their good n the others would cheat normally even sober so they dnt give a fuck n were out looking 2 get laid nyway. N I feel the if there good faithful woman who ur damn sure loves u n doesn't want 2 loose you n she faithful she never let herself get in that position because they do out groups thats 2 make sure it doesn't happen 1 or 2 friends always dnt 🍸 a lot wen they go n they alternate but those 2 or 3 smtms basically won't let it happen their friends came 2gether in 1 car n they will always watever # came 2gether will leave 2gether in the same car. From what I've seen those woman that love their men n dnt cheat n wnt let themselves cheat can b trusted 100% they plan ahead so's it dnt happen n by giving her that trust n her know she can trust me 100% nt 2 cheat that with no jealously n no distrust that she'll start loving me even more n me in return so that their bond is so tight that they will never cheat on 1 another as as their 2gether because they'd never jeopardize what they have 4 smethng else so they plan ahead wen their gonna party 🎉 n get fucked up so it dnt happen.
Yes if he cares about you. He will more than likely be jealous to an extent. I don't mean that in a bad way but guys know what guys think like and what they want esp if drinking. If a guy didn't care at all. Then you he don't care enough to want you to be only his.
When it comes to modern women yes you should
We all know what women do once they get freedom , I'll tell make their way to destroy a man's life
Meeting up for a chat at a bar or restaurant for two or less drinks is one thing.
Going clubbing and/or getting hammered is another.
I wouldn't be married to someone that did the latter.
It’s totally reasonable!
Women get constant attention from males trying to fuck them, when they drink they use “alcohol” as an excuse for whorish behaviour...
If she is even mildly attractive she WILL cheat.
Alcohol doesn't inherently change people's behavior, it just lowers inhibitions. That means you have less control over your actions when you're drunk, and you're in a more raw, reactive state. So, sure, she could be more likely to fall into temptation when drunk, but that just means she wanted to when sober but was able to restrain herself. Nobody cheats accidentally or without realizing it. Some people are naturally friendly/flirty, and this behavior may be amplified while under the influence, but you don't just suddenly decide to go home with someone, engage in foreplay, fit him inside you, orgasm, and then get to call it a "drunken mistake." That's just something people say to feel better about themselves or shift the blame away.
Tldr; short answer if she's going out drinking with her friends then she's cheating or plans on cheating either with the same guy she's seeing on the side or cheating with different guys. If she wasn't cheating she wouldn't be going out drinking with her friends
As far as Stop being possessive and insecure, you have to trust your girlfriend or wife that's a bunch of bullshit and a way for cunts to defend themselves when they cheat and lay a guilt trip on their partner for when they cheat blame the victim mentality
One last piece of advice NO woman will ever remain faithful so don't expect it. This isn't the 1950s anymore women dont know and dont want to know or understand the concepts of loyalty or faithfulness so dont expect it from them. They like to hoe around and thats it. You can't turn a hoe into a housewife. Which is why before you get married you do one simple thing get 2 contracts made one being a prenup making sure you keep everything you own so the bitch can't take it and two a noncompete claus stating that they can't be in love or have sex with anyine else other than you and if at any time you or her cheat you'll file for divorce or she can file for divorce. People have to think of relationships and marriage as business deals because lets face it thats all that is and thats how these gender biased courts and gender biased judges think of it solely as business deals and nothing more which is why prenups and noncompete clauses are needed and should be made mandatory before any marriage is allowed to take place
It's not understanable. A woman isn't weak or fragil she can protect herself.
That's not the point.