Is it unfair of me to ask my new boyfriend for a visual copy of his STI results?

I had the sti talk with my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago and after he admitted to having caught one a while back (and treating it with antibiotics), I asked him to get tested. He said he went to the sti clinic last week and because he didn't get a call back, he should be clean. I asked for a copy of his test results because I don't trust his words yet since I've only known him for a month. He seemed upset when I asked and has yet to show them to me. Is it unfair of me to ask for a copy of his test results?
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  • erm, you say you don't trust him so why bother with him at all?,,,

  • Not unfair at all, he can be angry all he wants.

  • You should trust him. The only way to build trust is to start with blind faith trust.

  • If you want them, expect to be asked for yours.

    • Ok. I would gadly give him mine

    • Id just bring him yours and leave it on him

  • Sounds fair to me! #YOLO (and I mean that in the "better safe than sorry" way)

  • It's absolutely fair. Safety comes first, and if he has nothing to hide he should be able to show you the results.
    Don't you think you are rushing to get intimate when you have only known him for a month? Adding here the fact that you don't trust him?

  • Nope.

  • Hells no. No compromises when it comes to sexual health. Dump his ass or no sex till you see results

  • No it's not unfair. It's different. If he took the test yes see the results

  • No. You are right with having clear answer. Only then you can really enjoy sex with him.

  • Most STI test results come back from the lab within seven to ten days. He 100% is infested with something. Good luck, not only he is a liar he doesn't care about your health. You sure know how to pick 'em gurl ;)

    ps: run for your life

    • Also if I was you I wouldn't even wait for him to photoshop fake results. Just tell him to GTFO.

  • Not unfair but he may not agree to it.

  • Not at but don't be upset if he asks to see yours

  • How would you know that any results he shows you are actually his?

  • No it's not.

  • The truth fears no investigation

  • What’s STI

    • Sexually transmitted infection.

  • Certainly more need to be done here...

  • It’s important to know if your boyfriend has an STI, your health could be at risk.
    So yes it is fair to ask him and wanting to know

  • Nope that should be fine

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