Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it weird for a girl to fantasize of sex with a guy?
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Is it weird for a girl to fantasize of sex with a guy? I feel like It isn't lady like don't respect myself and I'm a whore because I want to have sex. If guys have sex then it just a thing for them. Do guys lose feelings for their girlfriend after they have sex with her since they got what they wanted anyway? Please try to be honest. I'm thinking of having my first time b/c I'm impatient and can't stand to wait another year again. I'm 20 and I am a little desperate to find someone, I want to get married and have kids, in 6-7 years or less that what I have planned. Is it true if a girl has sex before marriage she slutty, if so than what's the guy considered. I don't really just want the sex, I want someone to love and hold, be faithful too and have fun with and make a close bond, tbh I'm lonely. It's like I can't date a guy without being pressured into sex, it hurts my feelings and it's so rude and disrespectful when they get pushy. I highly value my virginity and people look up to me for not being the easy type. What should I do, how should I think about this?
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7 35Normal 😊
Perfectly normal and healthy as long as you don't obsess
Exactly if you're obsessed with just sex a lot then. You probably have a really high sex drive. There's nothing wrong with that it's just different.
I want sex too. being a guy its considered normal.
Ofcourse not everyone needs it
i have 3 words for u. How you doing? ;)
I will be glad to have such one for me. It is all natural honey... keep going
It's not weird at all. Your feeling bad about it is just a messed up side effect of societal pressures.
first, calm down. it's okay. whatever you're feeling it's okay. I would say, if you want sex, get yourself some sex, just be careful. if you want a boyfriend, get yourself a boyfriend, but again, just be careful.
it's okay to feel what you are feeling but think a little less. follow your gut and just do it. forget what you'll be consider by others or what names you would be given.
bottom line: follow your gut. be careful.
doesn't make you anything but a woman. not a slut or anything of that natural
Absolutely not.
nope
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i think it's your christian faith that's keeping you from having sex..
im jewish, and even im not a virgin. don't let religion, RUN YOUR LIFE
you're 20 and still virgin don't lose yourself just cause you can't control over sexual feelings. About dating guys who are pushy towards sex. I think you shouldn't date them at all. they don't want to date you they just want to have sex. Your planning is good. Go find someone who truly loves you. marry him and have kids. Be happy. I wish you luck for the future. I will try to pray for you. Be happy and don't go with daring person who is pushy towards sex.
Don't rush into losing your virginity. I did and I seriously regret it. Especially considering my first love came about 3 months after.
As for men, they get seen as studs. Whereas women get the bad rep. Yet sex before marriage isn't that big a deal as it used to be. I mean it's better to know your sexually compatible than be unhappy all your life
Yes! It is weird for a girl to fantasize of sex with a guy, girls should fantasize of sex with a girl.